Dan O.
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You think there needs to be a study to confirm that laughing kissing and making faces is innapropriate after your good friend was just murdered? Who's going to fund that? Try to argue something that you stand a chance with. The discussion was whether that was odd behavior. You're not being asked whether she is guilty rather whether she behaved badly or not.
If someone is making a claim then they need to back up that claim. What is the normal behavior of 2 kids after one week into a relationship? One need only walk across a college campus (especially in the spring) to see numerous examples of similar behavior. These aren't typically notable (except to prudes that complain about the same thing every year) only because those kids hadn't been accused of murder.
This of course has been studied. I find this in a chapter on Adult Attachment and Physical Contact:
Simpson et al.’s (1992) study was important for revealing couple-members’ observable attachment behaviors in response to stressful conditions. Soliciting and providing physical contact comfort under stressful conditions is likely to be a major purpose of the attachment behavioral system in adulthood as well as in infancy.
