If it's all a matter of degree, and it may be a vey slight degree, why bring it up at all?
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Why should the parents, if they are to select the method of instruction in all ways for their children, pay any attention to the interests and abilities of their children? If the parent presumes that they know better than their child what is best for them, then it can follow quite logically that the parents will select what they feel is best, not what the child is best suited for or is actually interested in.
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With respect to your Einstein quotes, sure. But can you explain the similiarities in pedagoic methods of 19th century Bavaria to 21st century Hawaii?
3 There are about 130 years and a different cultural context that may require a little clarification before I'll accept that Einstein's opinion on his early education applies to what either I received or my children are receiving.
And as for Minsky's interview, he's reporting what Lawler told him that MacCurdy wrote, not reporting on McCurdy's paper. Third hand reporting of a 30 year old biographical study (at the time of the Minsky interview) can be dodgy.
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So, if people are interested in, McCurdy's article can be found
here.
Looking at McCurdy study of these geniuses, he looked at the biographies of 20 very intellectual giants in the last 500 years. In addition to the similarities quoted (large degree of adult interaction, little interaction with peer group and a strong intellectual life) there is one point of similarity that is overlooked - the fact that all of these geniuses belonged to the social class that had sufficient funds to allow them access to books, tutors and the time to indulge them.
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