Being funny about the planning of another murder? Ha ha.

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He currently is in NJ with relatives and I can see why he wouldn't be in Italy where he would know his phone was being tapped.
Agreed, it was tapped before.
I imagine Edda was there because if she wasn't we would have flurry of stories, posts and power points about how she was cheating on James, blah blah blah.
I think now it is you, maybe, being funny.....
You make it sound like there is something wrong with them discussing and coordinating their defenses. Why would that be? Preferring a face to face doesn't seem odd or suspicious at all.
Again, no one knows. I personally think Raff wants her with him in Florence, I think he may have wanted to discuss some things he definitely didn't want police overhearing. What, your guess is as good as mine, but remember, while I don't believe they killed Meredith, I do think they were involved to some degree.
What do you think about asking for independent review of the DNA, TOD and the footprint analysis?
Definitely they have to ask, weather or not it will accepted this time around, I doubt, been there done that. Independent reviews can go either way, that's why prosecutors and defence can always find ones that go their particular ways. TOD review would be great, we probably would get to see why stomach contents shouldn't be used to determine TOD with any great accuracy.
What do you think that Raf could confess that would hurt Amanda? If he in any way was less responsible for whatever you believe their involvement was, why would he have waited until now? Why didn't he come clean in December of 2007?
Didn't you hear, he's her hero, he still is in love. Raff is still involved, almost as much as Amanda, they, and even Rudi are pretty much caught up in their lies, it basically is too late to change stories and try to be believed, again, that ship has sail a very long time ago.
What "deep" subject do you fantasize he wanted to talk about?
I think he wants her in Florence, period.
Do you really believe that many people don't want the truth to come out? I do and I think most everybody following this do. You do.
I don't believe we would know the truth regardless of what was said or done by anyone involved. Certainly the final verdict will not be enough to convince many. Even should Amanda or Raff confess, I doubt many would believe the extent they say, unless they really shock us and again, not going to happen. Forget Rudi, even if he came forward and said they had nothing to do with it, many still wouldn't believe him.
Her video would be as I said earlier. She would state that she had absolutely no involvement and plead for independent reviews that the court would have turned down by the time the video was shown. Rudi's letter should be precedent for statements in court with no cross.
What Rudi letter? I may have missed that one.