Marriage confers benefits to married couples: tax-free inheritance, access to employer-funded health insurance, Social Security survivor benefits. If you advocate abolition of inheritance and estate taxes across the board, we agree. If you advocate expanding the class of people who benefit from exemption from these taxes to homosexual couples (who's checking, btw?), we disagree. If you advocate repeal of Social Security altogether, we agree. If you advocate extension of survivor benefits to partners of employed homosexuals, we disagree. In Hawaii, State law mandates that employers provide health insurance. Some employers (including the State and counties) offer policies that include spouses and dependent children. One of the claims by a party to the original Baer, et. al. v. Miike suit against the State of Hawaii Department of Health for their restriction of marriage licenses to heterosexual couples was that the policy denied her partnet access to her health insurance policy. Courts may allow non-government organizations to renegotiate compensation (redefinition of marriage is a material change in the contract), but I don't see governments changing their compensation packages. Taxpayers will pay increased health insurance costs for people who are far less likely to have children and far more at-risk of a very expensive medical condition. If you advocate that government-employers compensate all employees in cash only (no non-cash benefits, no unemployment insurance, etc.) and leave the terms of private-sector employment contracts to employers and employees (no mandated benefits, no unemployment insurance, etc.) we agree. If you advocate for an extension of the current spousal benefits in employment contracts to homosexual couples, we disagree.