I certainly had no problems with her actions unless I'm missing something. She 1)reported a violation of conference policy; 2) took a photo of someone in a location without an expectation of privacy; and 3) Publicly talked about that incident. One of the people involved in the incident has apparently publicly apologized. That's reasonable. The unreasonable stuff - the death threats, the DDOS, and the firings are all things that have been done by people not in the original exchange.
No, I wouldn't expect you'd have a problem with her actions as you fail to see that she used a very very weak example of sexism to go public and score SJW points at someone else's expense. We know from her tweeted definition of racism that she's a hardcore SJW player and as we all know, being an SJW is all about the takedowns, the sticking it to the privliged, punching up, as they l;ike to say at A+.
An adult would have quietly let those guys know that she was overhearing things that made her uncomfortable and I'd go so far as to speculate she was looking for something, anything to raise this kind of fuss in order to direct attention to herself.
We've all seen that this is how SJWs like to work through reading A+. First they set up a "safe space" ( yea I know the stated reasons ) but it's obvious that the safe space concept is to facilitate the bashing of white males where those white males who may take issue with being bashed are effectively coerced into silence through the threat of or actual banning.
Take that quote I posted earlier today, where the poster is on about people thinking that women having periods is somehow unnatural. This is one clear cut case of hardcore misandry that's going to go unchallenged even though anyone reading it did the same wtf ? as I did.
On A+, in the safe space, nobody dares challenge this for what it is. Oh but misandry isn't a "thing", as they like to say over there. Well, dears, yes it is and I don't give a rip about reasons for being misandrists, racist etc. and the fact that the Aplussers have to make things up to make their points is well [ abelist slur ].
So donglegate a set up ? Wouldn't doubt that for a minute.