Yes I"m aware that one doesn't have to be intersex to be genderqueer, were it so simple.....
I'm tending to thing of genderqueer as having some sort of psychological relationship with, or affinity for, intersex. Since we don't have full blown transsexualism, more like something on the transsexual scale, trans lite, if you will that has a substantial component of identity wrapped up in it.
If I may ask a personal question, do, or did you ever consider yourself as genderqueer ? I'm not thinking along the lines of tomboy or liking traditionally male things or pursuits but more along the lines of did you ever consider yourself to be partially male as part of your gender identity ?