A post I meant to finish but didn't. Just some ideas.
I have found it annoying in the extreme myself. If you talk about the sensation of red they will talk about how many nanometers of light red corresponds to, which part of the brain gets activated when red is experienced (if you are lucky), etc., etc... without once acknowledging that red is first encountered and only then are objective ideas associated with it. In terms of epistemology, sensation is primary! There are major consequences to studying consciousness because of this fact.
Comp.lit want to start with objective ideas because that is a method that has worked so well in the past for science. Think of the world 'out there' as being the real center of attraction and come up with various ideas to encompass what is observed about it. When it comes to sensation and consciousness, it is no longer about 'out there', it is about 'in here'.
I wonder, I remember that on a video linked by Zeuzzz the topic of mirror neurons as it relates to autism was brought up. I do not think of comp.lits as dumb (just not wise per se), it seems like they do not have a full Theory of Mind or something (like my supposed autistic people missing mirror neurons, if such is the case). We could test this by doing autopsy studies of people who self-describe to various ideas associated with comp.lit (for it to be a real study the sample would have to be randomized as much as possible, so that the participants will be representative of the whole populace and not just comp.lit, but you get my drift I hope).
When the people in the study die, make note of how well developed the mirror neuron areas are in the various brains (or at least, observations of that kind). If the comp.lit's in the survey have less well developed mirror neuron areas than the rest of the participants, it would hopefully show them they are missing something from the conversation (I can not a priori get rid of the possibility that the mirror neurons in the comp.lit's are more developed than average as a possibility, but given their collective behavior, I find the possibility slim; however, that is the beauty of science, you can be shown to be wrong if you are intellectually honest).
Perhaps then comp.lits will listen if such was shown, but I doubt it. Like an ignorant blind child they want to tell everyone else with vision they are wrong, there is nothing going on. I would rather talk with those who have eyes that see (speaking metaphorically here, I have nothing against blind people).