It started out as irrational, but now if your kids are out alone on suburban streets, they will be the only ones. It's kind of like swimming in the ocean alone vs in a crowd of hundreds when there is a hungry shark about.
Yes; that is true. The attitude of "safe over sorry" has pretty much pervaded American society, and now every kid seems to live hidden, seated quietly behind one barrier or another at all times.
Yes, when I was a kid, people didn't think that way. We had a school playground with swings, slides, and monkey bars set into asphalt. Some kids got stitches every few weeks, and some kids broke bones. Nobody thought it was a big deal, and nobody would have even thought of suing for something like that. Years later, some kid fell or was pushed off a slide and died, so a few lawsuits in those early years may have been helpful, but we've definitely gone too far in the other direction.
We went to see the fireworks in town. The baseball field was freshly mowed, and sprayed for mosquitos. A few local businesses had booths set up and were selling Frisbees and glow sticks and hats. At least half of the population of the town was there, and kids were every where.
I really enjoy people watching sometimes; especially in a crowd. And one of the most common scenes was a woman or a couple parked on a blanket, yelling at a kid or three. A few of the phrases I caught were:
No running! (heard this one at least five times)
No, no more tag!
Leave the ball here or someone will get hurt.
Don't leave my sight -no, that's too far- come back here.
No horseplay, boys.
etc
Really. Every kid in town was there. Two acres or more of wide open grass. Nice weather and free watermelon. Enough cloud cover that it wasn't too hot. Toys to play with and a thousand adults to call for help if needed. An ambulance was parked on the far side of the parking lot, just in case.
But those kids weren't allowed to play. Everyone expected them to stay with their families, on the blankets or in lounge chairs. No running, no tag, no horseplay. For some of them, it might as well have been a classroom -sit quiet, watch, be quiet, sit still, don't move, hands where I can see them, put the ball away....
No wonder the entire generation is obese. Now how will these kids who have never been free to move and play really get enough exercise later to keep off extra pounds? They don't even know what "enough exercise" is. They don't know what it is to run the 500 yard dash four times against four different opponents in a single afternoon's
play. Is it even possible to learn that later? If you can't play hard when you're a kid, when can you?