No, you are.
The normal point of view is that time light passes at different speeds because the gravitational attraction is different. Your point of view reverses this, claiming that gravitational attraction is different because time light is passing at different speeds.
My point of view is Einstein's point of view. He said a curvature of rays of light can only take place when
"die Ausbreitungs-geschwindigkeit des Lichtes mit dem Orte variiert", which translates into
"the speed of light varies with the locality". When it doesn't, there is no gravitational attraction.
You can't know that if time light wasn't passing at different speeds at different heights then "things wouldn't fall down" until you first demonstrate that your point of view is correct.
Einstein was the author of general relativity, his point of view was correct. And you
know it's correct from the parallel-mirror gif. And you know about the wave nature of matter don't you? You know we can make an electron out of light via pair production? And that the electron has spin angular momentum and a magnetic dipole moment? And that it can be diffracted? So think of the electron as a standing wave of light. A circle of light, as it were. Put it in a gravitational field and think it through. Divide the circle into four flat quadrants to make it even simpler:
..←
↓
....↑
..→
Starting from the left and going anticlockwise, at a given instant we have light travelling down like this ↓. There’s a gradient in c from top to bottom, but all it does is make the light look blueshifted. A little while later the light is moving like this → and the lower portion of the wave-front is subject to a slightly lower c than the upper portion. So it bends down a little. Later it’s going this way ↑ and looks redshifted, and later still it’s going this way ← and bends down again. These bends translate into a different position for the electron. It falls down:
○
↓
The reducing c bleeds rotational motion out into linear motion. But only half the cycle got bent, so only half the reduced c goes into kinetic energy aka relativistic mass. That’s why light is deflected twice as much as matter, and gravity is not the sort of force that increases the relativistic mass. Simple.
Farsight said:
I've said it already. When gravitational tidal forces vanish you've got a gravitational field that doesn't diminish with distance. That's a nonsense implication.
Is it nonsense?
Yes. You've got a reducing speed of light that keeps on reducing, so much so that it and ends up being negative. There's no such thing as a negative speed. A negative speed is nonsense.
Increase the distance of your floating lab/city from the planet, and then increase the mass of the planet to compensate so that you're still experiencing the same amount of gravity. Suddenly, the tidal forces in your lab are smaller than they were before.
No problem with that.
Repeat this process indefinitely. As distance approaches infinity, tidal force (difference in gravity) approaches at zero. Sure, you can't actually get infinite distance. But at some finite distance you're going to reach a point where no practical test inside your lab can detect the presence of any gravitational variation with distance.
But things in your lab still fall down, and the parallel-mirror light-clock at the ceiling still runs faster than the one at the floor.
Now here's something to think about. If things fall down because light is moving slower at the lower elevation as you claim, shouldn't differences in the speed of light over the same elevation (as in my example above) cause things to fall with different force?
Yes. If there's a big difference between the speed of light at the ceiling as compared to the speed of light at the floor, the force of gravity is large. If there's a lesser difference, the force of gravity is less. When there's no difference, things don't fall down.
But if gravity follows the inverse square law (as I assumed in my example above), then this can't possibly be true.
It is true. When you measure the difference between the speed of light at the ceiling as opposed to the floor in a very
very tall building, you find that on floor 100,000 the difference is less than it is in the basement. If you could take an equatorial slice through the planet and measure the speed of light at various locations, when you plot them out what you end up with is
the upturned hat. When you look at one small region of this there's still a gradient in gravitational potential and a gradient in c. There's no discernible
curvature of the gradient, you can't detect any tidal force, but things still fall down, and light still curves when it moves through space, so we say spacetime is curved. Way out a zillion miles to the left or right where there's no discernible
gradient, your measurements can't detect any curvature of light, or things falling down, and then we say spacetime is flat.