As I've explained, to speak of "the perspective of other particles in the simulation" as if it were anything but an exercise of imagination is ridiculous.
No, you have not "explained" it. You just keep asserting it, then saying anything else is ridiculous.
I am the only one doing explaining, which is ( as usual ) being utterly ignored.
Should I try again?
1) The only property any particle has that is necessary for it to be a particle is the way it interacts with other particles.
2) This means anything that interacts with something like a particle is also a particle, from the perspective of the other, by any definition available to modern physics.
3) This means if two tennis balls interact with each other exactly as two quarks, the tennis balls are also quarks, from the perspective of each other.
4) This means if two simulated particles interact with each other exactly as two quarks, the simulated particles are also quarks, from the perspective of each other.
In fact the only full objective definition of something like a quark requires referencing every other particle in the universe and saying "For all particles p, p is a quark if it can interact with another quark in this way, with another boson in that way, .... and with <some particle > in this way, where boson, ... , and <some particle > have been previously defined."
Which is the whole point I am trying to make -- "where" those things are is not part of the definition. The current physical definition of each fundamental particle doesn't reference reality -- at all. It simply references other particles. If all the particles referenced are in a simulation, then the current physical definition holds.
I suspect you are going to say "but particles are 'real'." But there is zero evidence of this, in fact you have it totally backwards. Reality is defined based on references to particles, not the other way around. You can't say a real particle is real and a simulated particle is not real. All you can say is that a particle in our reality can interact with other particles in our reality whereas a simulated particle cannot interact with other particles in our reality.