caniswalensis
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doesn't look at all snarky to me - unless you read the 'you' as specifically personal rather than general, and the final imperative as an admonition - even then it seems a little over-sensitive. These forums commonly have far more robust exchanges that are intentionally 'snarky'.
Thanks for your input. You are not the only one to suggest to me that the 'you' was meant generally. It did not seem that way to me, because the message was a direct reply and anwser to a question I had posed. Also, since the final imperitive had a quoted phrase from my own post in it, I did take it as an admonition aimed directly at myself. However, if Skeptic Ginger cares to clarify, I would appreciate it. If the 'you' was meant in a general fashion, I would regret my terse reply and will apologize sincerely for it.
Either way, I don't care if this seems overly sensitive to other people. I don't care if it is not the worst example of personal remark that can be found in this forum. I have seen some really hurtful and terrible thingsa said in this forum. It is not any sort of standard of civil discourse.
My problem was this; I asked a question, and it was civil. I would have loved to discuss the pros and cons of my question with SK or anyone as long as it was friendly & civil. It doesn't matter if someone agrees with me or not. I enjoy discussion & learning. Instead, I got what appeared in every way to be a snarky, condescending directive that seemed designed to put an opponent in their place. I have no use for or patience with that kind of ill- treatment. I will call people on it every time I encounter it.
Regards, Canis
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