FattyCatty
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Abstinence is taught as an option in comprehensive sex education. You may find this book interesting: Guidelines for Comprehensive Sexuality Education, 3RD EDITION. Key Concept 4: Sexual Behavior starts on page 50:This isn't the issue, I know, but even if PP used taxpayer money to fund abortions, the abortions probably saved taxpayers more money than they spent.
I wanted to put in a plug for abstinence education. Not abstinence only. When I was a teenager the pervasive social message was to have sex. This was during a brief period in history, after penicillin and the Pill but before AIDS, when hedonism seemed a little more viable. At the time it wouldn't have hurt for me to hear that it was OK not to have sex and that postponing it made a lot of sense.
Sexual Behavior Life Behaviors:
Having applied the sexual behavior subconcepts at the appropriate age, the learner will be able to:
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- Enjoy and express one’s sexuality throughout life.
- Express one’s sexuality in ways that are congruent with one’s values.
- Enjoy sexual feelings without necessarily acting on them.
- Discriminate between life-enhancing sexual behaviors and those that are harmful to self and/or others.
- Express one’s sexuality while respecting the rights of others.
- Seek new information to enhance one’s sexuality.
- Engage in sexual relationships that are consensual, nonexploitative,
- honest, pleasurable, and protected.
Topic 4: Sexual Abstinence
Subconcept: Abstinence from sexual intercourse is the most effective method of preventing pregnancies and sexually transmitted diseases, including HIV.
Developmental Messages:
Level 2
Level 3
- Children are not physically or emotionally ready for sexual intercourse and other sexual behaviors.
- Abstinence means voluntarily choosing not to engage in certain behaviors.
- Sexual abstinence means not engaging in any sexual behavior that can result in a pregnancy or STD, including HIV.
- People may have different ideas about what constitutes abstinence, from no sexual contact of any kind including kissing, to only abstaining from sexual intercourse, and all points in-between.
- People of all ages, genders, and sexual orientations can choose to be abstinent.
- Sexual partners should discuss what they mean by abstinence.
- Abstinence from intercourse has benefits for teenagers and adults.
- Sexual abstinence is the best method to prevent pregnancy and STDs/HIV.
- Young teenagers are not mature enough for a sexual relationship that includes intercourse.
- Many adults believe school-age teenagers should not have sexual intercourse.
- Some religions teach that sexual intercourse should only occur in marriage.
- There are many ways to give and receive sexual pleasure without having intercourse.
- Teenagers in romantic relationships can express their feelings without engaging in sexual intercourse.
- Teenagers who date need to discuss sexual limits with their dating partners.
- Individuals need to respect the sexual limits set by their partners.
- Teenagers considering sexual activity should talk to a parent or other trusted adult about their decisions, contraception, and disease prevention.
- Teenagers who have already had sexual intercourse can choose to be abstinent in that same relationship and/or in future relationships.
Level 4
- Many teenagers have had sexual intercourse and many have not.
- Sexual intercourse is not a way to achieve adulthood.
- Many adults experience periods of abstinence.
