Of course, what they did had no way out. There was no option but to admit that it was a horrendous mistake. Except it wasn't a horrendous mistake. It was ordered and done deliberately and women and children were shot and then left in the streets to die since no one could come out to help them for fear of being shot because of the curfew.
I agree 100%, but the point is, nobody is saying otherwise. I am not in any way defending what the major did or what the lieutenant or his soldiers did. I am pointing out simply that seven out of eight of the officers given this direct command refused point blank to carry it out. Nor am I defending the Israeli government's frankly despicable decision to pardon them. But the Israeli public and people -- and most of the soldiers -- were outraged.
(Imagine what would have happened, by the way, if 7 out of 8 German soldiers told to carry out similar, indeed much worse, crimes in the East during WWII refused point blank to do so, and would do everything to publish the deed, including by reading the description into the record in the Reichstag. Even if nobody ever punished the 1/8th of the soldiery which agreed, do you think the Jewish or Polish or Slav massacres there could have occurred as they did?)
In addition this kind of thing is not unusual. Women, children, regular civilians are shot and killed and bombed by Israeli forces on a regular basis whenever something goes wrong.
If "whenever something goes wrong" means "whenever Hamas and related folks use their houses as military bases", then yes. But, sorry, there is simply no comparison between shooting civilians for violating curfew and having civilians killed during fighting within a city. The moral blame here is on Hamas, not on Israel. In fact the IDF is extremely careful with civilian lives: "Cast Lead" for instance had a very
low number of civilians killed compared to combatants, especially considering the close house-to-house fighting involved.
Let's take Kfar Kassam again. Imagine that the Lieutenant's forces, when entering the city to enforce curfew without any thought of killing anybody, were caught in a crossfire from various houses in the town square and shot their way out. Then, after the battle, it turned out that the shooters deliberately shot at the soldiers from houses they filled to the brink with sick civilians from the local hospital (much like Hamas' headquarters during operation "Cast Lead" was in the basement of a hospital), so the soldiers, when returning fire, killed 40 civilians. Would that be a massacre? Perhaps, but it would have been morally the ambushers' fault, not the soldiers'.
Instead of calling them collateral damage they insist that these people were covering up for terrorists or some such thing.
Most of the time they weren't willfully covering up, but forced to cover up by the terrorists. For example, the Hamas leadership during "Cast Lead" headquartered itself in the basement of the hospital. According to the rules of way, if Israel had bombed that hospital (it didn't), the moral and legal blame would have been on Hamas for deliberately turning it into a military target by having its headquarters there, even if the people in the hospital didn't want them there (I don't think anybody is saying they did, or usually do). When Hamas uses your house to store rockets, soldiers, or weapons, your house
is a military target.
It does cause people to have a distaste in their mouth about the entire situation. The same way people have distaste in their mouth when the US went into Iraq. Were those who criticized us "Anti American?"
Depends. Sometimes not. Sometimes so -- as in the case of those who were screaming about the US "violations of human rights" while caring nothing at all that they are marching in "peace" protests together with Islamists who support the killing and subjugation of all those who they dislike.