christianahannah
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I think it is unfortunate that Amanda is expected to say anything. It implies she did something to get herself into this, and now there is something she should do, or should have done, to get herself out of it.
No Mary, it is not expected, it is just done. It doesn't imply guilt, or fault. If I named someone who I did not know was there, even if my naming them was forced, it does not hurt me to apologize for the pain inflicted on that person.
No one would be looking to Amanda to apologize to Patrick or sympathize with the Kerchers if not for the police falsely arresting her, the prosecutor arbitrarily pursuing charges against her, and the judges wrongly convicting her. She is paying their debts.
I think it is right that Amanda apologized yesterday to Patrick and sympathized with the Kerchers about Meredith's death. It shows she did care about those things and humanizes her.
To say that it is helpful for her to make this statement now, or preferably earlier, is basically to say that Amanda has finally accepted her place. Her spontaneous joy and innocence have been beaten out of her, and she is now behaving in the way she should have been behaving all along. What a relief.
No Mary, I don't think that. I think Amanda made a wise decision in speaking yesterday and addressing the criticisms which have been directed towards her.