Mary_H
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I am going to respect your convictions .ary, even though we disagree.
However, I will say this. I have three sons. Amanda would NOT be the daughter-in-law I would be thrilled to have.
Let's forget about murderess. I would want a woman, who showed empathy, maturity, intelligence,
Could I ask, you, Mary, as an intelligent woman...what is it about Amanda that would make you welcome her into your household? I will listen, and be open.
For me,I don't care about looks, or colour, or degrees. i do care, however, about a caring, loving, empathetic,sympathetic person.
If you have a son, or daughter, who meets this criteria..well, and Amanda is it, i must re-think. I can only say, if any of my children showed such a lack of sensitivity, i would be DISMAYED, to say the least.
Heartbroken, really. These are kids who gave their pocket money to save Whales.
I wonder what Meredith's family think, when they see the crusade to free Amanda? The almost nun? It surely must rankle. Would you feel differently if Meredith was your daughter?
Yes, I probably would feel differently if Meredith were my daughter. I would feel jaded and cynical about the people who were accused of killing her; anyone would. That's part of the tragedy of this wrongful conviction of Amanda and Raffaele, though -- that truth has been withheld from them and they carry hard feelings toward three people instead of just one.
I would welcome Amanda into my household because she strikes me as warm, happy, outgoing, artistic, creative and compassionate. I have seen pictures of her with her little sisters and her nieces and nephews that indicate she loves and respects them. I just don't see anything objectionable about her.
If we can believe reports that she seemed insensitive in the aftermath of the murder, I would say that was because of her young age and the fact that she didn't know what was going on. She showed a lot of generosity by wanting to contribute to the investigation into Meredith's death. I don't have any objections to how she expressed herself, but to someone who did I might suggest that Amanda was channeling her emotions about the situation into practice.
