I'm not arguing against the use of common terms - it's just that if we use "information" to mean "stuff that is of interest and usefulness to us" - which is how we use it, normally, when talking about computers - then we have to be very careful not to extend that functional description into the physical realm.
Then you're arguing against the sloppy use of common terms, which is the business of philosophy. Fair enough. You've introduced the term "information", which is a slippery one, admittedly, and defined it as "stuff that is of interest and usefulness
to us" (its normal usage, you say, though in philosophy we don't limit ourselves to normal usage; we make it explicit, then refine it).
If you stick with that definition of information, then of course it will be impossible to find "information" in mindless nature: there will be only trees falling in the forest, with no one around to hear, let alone note that the trees are part of a forest, that the forest can be considered a system whose integrity effects the integrity of every tree in it and vice versa, etc. More limiting, that "information" defined as communicated orderly sequences of state transitions ("behaviors" we tend to call them, when describing animals) which are useful ('meaningful" we tend to say, when referring to people) to the integrity of a natural system can overlap with and even embrace the narrower concept of human "information", defined as communicated, via language rather than evolution, behaviors which are useful to us: that is, useful to us as systems which rely on such meaningful information for knowledge of ourselves and our environment and how to function productively in it. That analogy seems to me, and many others, an apt comparison well worth pursuing, to see what insights it provides (who knows: it may turn out the distinction between us and the rest of nature is a culturally-inherited impediment to understanding; or it may turn out to be vital that we maintain the distinction and never let it go; or a little, or a lot, of both).
Anyway, for the purposes of discussion, to single out this thought-provoking similarity between mindless nature and mindful us, as philosophers, for curiosity's sake, let's explicitly define
information as something like "communication which is relevant to the integrity of a system", and see where it leads (all the while, as philosophers, mindful how we have expanded the definition of course, and the previously observed differences between the systems to which we apply it).
In the physical realm, all the effects that one particle has on its neighbours are of equal status, and convey equal information.
Wasn't sure how you're defining "information" here. Local change in state that we observe/infer by its effects? Or 'mindless' cause-and-effect between a particle and its neighbors?
When a theory relies on the confusion between two realms, one can legitimately doubt its value.
Good. Good philosophy relies on doubt. Every analogy between realms is open to doubt. However, we shouldn't let doubts overwhelm us, imo, and dismiss analogies even as we have barely begun to explore them (nor should we assume their success until thoroughly explored; so, by all means, keep on doubting)... (tho' within reason, eh?)
