Weak Kitten
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This is awesome! It's not my fault, I have a disease.
I have no control over whether I drink or not, it is the disease!!
Alright! Now I can shift the blame to the disease, I am going to drink up tonight!
....and my wife can't get mad.... cuz I have a disease... I can't help it.
That's not what any of us are saying. What we are saying is that the extreme addiction that occurs in some people but not in others is a disease. The only coping mechanism we know right now is for people with that disease to not drink at all.
What I was trying to say is that by categorizing it as a disease, or more accurately a genetic predisposition, you can begin to work with it. People who know they have a chance of being alcoholic can know in advance to avoid alcohol. And those who have already suffered from it can be viewed as people struggling with a real problem, rather than just wusses who don't have enough self control.
When outsiders see it as a disease it changes their behavior too. They become more willing to help people with their coping mechanisms, like offering fruit juice at the office party or being understanding when someone asks to have the get together somewhere other than a bar. People are willing to help someone with a recognized disease, they tend to blow you off if they think it's just a mater of weakness.