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Homosexuality is a choice

Thunder

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why do some folks still think that being gay or lesbian is a choice?

most science shows that gays and lesbians realize they are this way early on in life, sometimes even before puberty.

and yet, lots of folks like to talk about it...as if its a choice.

a choice, that can be changed. ahhhh!!!!!!!!!!

now I get it. :D
 
You have two choices:

1. Accept it.

2. Deny it and live a lie.

There are many married men with families who are quite gay and closeted, if my experience is any indication.
 
bikerdruid said:
as long as i can remember.
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fascinating.

though, I'm sure this is not the same for all gays.

Kinsey's scale of homosexuality suggests to me that those who are less "strongly" gay, probably realized their sexuality later in life.

or maybe I am wrong. who the hell knows. I prefer to just believe that all gays and lesbians are born that way.

though I do have my doubts about many lesbians, who seem to have "chosen" their sexuality after numerous bad experiences with men, or growing up with a crappy dad. you never hear about men going gay, after being dissed by one too many girlfriends.
 
Thunder said:
though I do have my doubts about many lesbians, who seem to have chosen their lifestyle after numerous bad experiences with men, or growing up with a crappy dad.
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Do you think maybe being lesbian may have influenced their relationship problems with men? Growing up in a society that looks down upon homosexuals forces some people to go along to get along.
 
Homosexuality is no more than a depraved degeneracy.
It is the most horrible thing in the world to be.
That's why no queer chooses to be that way.
They cannot help themselves.
Pity the fairies and their poor lot in life.
They did not ask to be born a perverted mockery of nature.
 
bynmdsue said:
Homosexuality is no more than a depraved degeneracy.
It is the most horrible thing in the world to be.
That's why no queer chooses to be that way.
They cannot help themselves.
Pity the fairies and their poor lot in life.
They did not ask to be born a perverted mockery of nature.
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Interesting.

Tell me more.
 
bynmdsue said:
Homosexuality is no more than a depraved degeneracy.
It is the most horrible thing in the world to be.
That's why no queer chooses to be that way.
They cannot help themselves.
Pity the fairies and their poor lot in life.
They did not ask to be born a perverted mockery of nature.
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indeed. i think if homosexuality was a choice, there would be ZERO homosexuals on Earth.

could you imagine actually CHOSING to be gay, in the Muslim world?

in Eastern Europe?

talk about suicidal.
 
Thunder said:
indeed. i think if homosexuality was a choice, there would be ZERO homosexuals on Earth. could you imagine actually CHOSING to be gay, in the Muslim world? in Eastern Europe? talk about suicidal.
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An yet, oddly enough, there are people who actually choose suicide, even when there are other viable options.
 
Thunder said:
most science shows that gays and lesbians realize they are this way early on in life, sometimes even before puberty.
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The fallacy in this is that you are assuming the bigots are persuaded to engage in their bigotry by scientific evidence.
 
bynmdsue said:
Pity the fairies and their poor lot in life.
They did not ask to be born a perverted mockery of nature.
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Homosexuality is seen in a wide range of natural settings in many different species. In fact, most species do not reproduce sexually at all. Hence I'd like to see some evidence that homosexuality is a "perverted mockery of nature".
 
Fnord said:
An yet, oddly enough, there are people who actually choose suicide, even when there are other viable options.
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Not odd at all, really. Humans are not rational creatures. It takes very little for our emotions to dominate our actions. Every single one of us has at one point or another acted out of anger, fear, hate, love, or other emotion - whether it was the "best" viable option or not.

Despair and loneliness are powerful, powerful beasts. Combine these feelings with the raging hormones of an adolescent, and it doesn't take much to see that it can lead to some very bad, bad places.
 
My question for men who think it's a choice is this: "Are you saying that you could choose to achieve and maintain an erection and have sex to orgasm with another man?"

If the answer is "No", then you're saying homosexuality is not a choice.
 
Piggy said:
My question for men who think it's a choice is this: "Are you saying that you could choose to achieve and maintain an erection and have sex to orgasm with another man?"

If the answer is "No", then you're saying homosexuality is not a choice.
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I am so using that.

That's two quotes of yours that I've stole this week! :D
 
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