Solange, I will try to answer a few of your questions without repeating too much of what the other posters have already effectively explained.
None of the housemates attended the vigil. My understanding is they were advised to avoid the press.
Thank you, that makes sense. I cant hold that against her then, you are right.
This, I believe, is cultural. Smiling the way Amanda smiled is a sign of power, in that it suggests you are a whole, happy and healthy person, thus lessening other people's suspicions that you may have problems. This is something Amanda would have learned in her city and in her schools, not something that reflects her personal quirkiness.
I live in Seattle and am familiar with, and participate in, that approach. I met a man from another country, who was working at the UW. He told me that one thing he had noticed about the workplace was that, "Even when something is bad, you have to say it is good." Very true in many places in Seattle.
I have to disagree, I lived in Federal Way (Im sure you've heard of it, right outside Seattle) for three years. I went to Twin Lakes Elementary and Lakota Junior High. I didnt see any cultural differences that would explain Amanda's differences in behavior. Although there may be other explanations, I just don't know about it being anything to do with Seattle.
Another message Amanda's smiling is intended to communicate is that she likes and respects her captors. The Jesuits would have taught her that Jesus said, "Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you." By letting her enemies know she is okay with them, she is following scripture.
That is a possible explanation, but so is the one I mentioned. It still doesnt entirely convince me, but at least it's an alternate explanation that I can consider
There really isn't that much she couldn't remember. It's important to keep in mind, too, that a lot of time had passed before she was asked about things she couldn't recall; in other words, she wasn't being asked these things the day after the murder. Also, imagine what it's like to be up against authorities telling you your memory of events is mistaken and there is another version you should be recounting. That would be enough to make most people lose confidence in their memories and start to say, "I'm not sure."
Maybe when I said this I should have referred more to Raffaele, saying he couldnt remember if they had made love or not. Also, the phone call she forgot was forgotten days after the murder, not months....
Amanda testified to the effect that she would have had to clean the toilet with a brush in order to flush it completely. I can understand why she would not want to do that.
I dont get that, that doesnt make sense to me. I dont want to get gross here, so I wont go into too much detail, but Id rather flush it and get most out then leave all of it there, if you know what I mean. But like I said in the posts right above this one, there may be innocent explanations for this one, I can admit that with no problem.
To me, her hair looks poofy, like most people's hair looks after it has been blown dry. In most on the pictures we see of her in court, her hair is much flatter and glossier than in the ones taken on Nov. 2nd. That's because in the later photos, her hair is completely dry, while on 11/2, it wasn't.
Thats a good observation I will take a look at the court pictures again.
She did that because she was 20 years old, living in a college town and used to young people coming and going without malice. I mentioned a long time ago on this board that I had a job that took me into high schools, and when I used the restrooms there, I saw a lot of blood. While it was not pleasant, there was nothing alarming about it because I "knew" what it was from. Amanda may have felt the same way.
That makes sense, I personally never experienced that, but I am aware that just because I havent had it, doesnt mean others havent either. Your experience is a good example of that