How did we move to child pornography? I've apparently fallen way behind. Anyway, if there is anything really "wrong" with porn, this is where it would be, in my opinion. Child pornography.
I find it odd...please no one take offense, I am going to explain...but I find it odd that there is any quibble over what is or is not child pornography. Not surprising though, if we remember the 80's at all.
Does everyone remember, in the 80's, where there was this "witch hunt" mentality against day cares? I realize that sexual abuse may have happened in some cases, but for the most part, there seemed to be a national hysteria, and all of the sudden people were teaching children about "touches" and "private places" and were pretty much completely paranoid. It seemed, to me, reasonable to expect children to say things after adults spent hours telling them about "bad" places, and "bad" people, and how "bad" people wanted to hurt them. Even if they were not true! To relate it to my own childhood, I guess it would be like always being told about how "the boogeyman" was going to get me. And sure enough, I started "seeing" the boogeyman in every closet or behind every door, or just waiting to get me if I even thought about being a nosy little kid and plundering in things that I wasn't supposed to plunder in. (Dresser drawers. As a little child, I loved to plunder through dresser drawers.)
There still exist photos, taken in the early to mid 70's, of myself and my sisters in the bathtub. We were all under 5 years old. There still exist photos of us as toddlers, without shirts on, just in diapers. What was wrong with that? Little boys ran around with only a diaper or shorts, and no one thought anything of it. We weren't even close to sexual development, so looking at us was no different than looking at a little boy, was it? Especially considering our hair was kept short back then.
Now, an 8 year old? I see no reason for an 8 year old, or any school aged child, really, to be photographed naked...but...there do exist people who are photo freaks, and they want a photographic record of the life of their child. I'm okay with that. Within reason...although I think it should be considered how that child will feel about their parents taking such photos once they reach certain ages. Then again, isn't it the job of parents to embarrass their children?

That's what I've heard, anyway...
It concerns me a lot when people argue about how far they can go before something is child pornography. To me, that is a line, a place, NO ONE should go. Childhood sexual abuse is horrific (trust me), and I think that it is only because society finally started recognizing it that people (parents and other relatives mostly, not necessarily pedophiles, just your general sickos) started getting prosecuted for it. It has always gone on, but...our society used to be a little bit different. Private business was private business, you weren't supposed "to tell" about anything bad going on in your house...kind of a holdover from a time when things were more about the "image", or perhaps "what people would think". Children were, basically, just property then. It took a long, long time for that to change, didn't it?
There are parents who have had to explain themselves over nude bathtub photos. The same nude photos that were commonplace in our families for generations. In fact, I have a very old photograph of my mother, as a toddler, naked, sitting in a washtub of water way back when our family still lived in a rural cabin with no electricity. There was no bathtub, just a well pump. Nothing "sexual" about that photo at all. It's actually a very good representation of Appalachian poverty, I think...and an adorable picture of my mother before she had problems, a photo I cherish. I have an even older (and not very good quality, I guess because it was early 1900's) photo of my grandmother and aunts and uncles as small children, bathing in the creek by that cabin. Naked. Nothing sexual about it.
But then we got paranoid. I think after the sixties and seventies, there was a sort of...mmm...regression back to more puritanical thinking? I said that poorly, but someone can probably better phrase it. Then, of course, the hysteria over daycare centers. And no one realized when they told each and every child about the "bad" people, many children would imagine a lot of people as "bad". We can't blame the children for that. And so...child nudity became...taboo? A no-no. Funny that, since all around here people still let their toddlers play outside with just a diaper on nice summer days.
But. There are sickos. And child pornography isn't an imaginary boogeyman. I have very strong feelings about this, and I really mean no offense, but it really does disturb me that anyone would even think that drawings representing children, pornographic, should be okay. At one time, I tried to find a way to be okay with that. After all, it wasn't a *real* child. But ultimately, I don't know, it just seems...sick. Too far. Too...too something.
General opinions. Now I'll try to catch up on the whole thread.