I agree with jsfisher on this one. You have only done a statement. Here, I'll do one too!
|F| > any member of F={..., -3, -2, -1}
Same, same only different.
As do I.
Let's try a different tact
My cat has four legs.
A true statement.
Does having four legs define my cat?
At least in part, but my neighbor’s dog also has four legs and certainly is not my cat. Having four legs is just a property of my cat as well as my neighbor’s dog.
Does my cat define the property of having four legs?
No, not at all it is simply a property my cat and my neighbor’s dog both might share. To define the property of having four legs one would first need to define what does or does not constitute a leg and what does or does not constitute having a leg. Only then can one determine if my cat or my neighbor’s dog both meet the required definition of having four legs.
In the statement “|N| > any member of N={1, 2, 3, …}” or “|F| > any member of F={..., -3, -2, -1}” the definitions of the sets N and F are given, but the definition of the property of |N| or |F| (cardinality of those sets) is not, only the condition that it is greater then any member of the defined set is given. In the case of the set F, 0 is > any member of F={..., -3, -2, -1}, yet 0 is not |F|. In the case of the set N the cardinality of the set of all real numbers R thus |R| is > any member of N={1, 2, 3, …}, yet again |R| is not |N| by the definition of cardinality. Since |R| meets the given requirements of “> any member of N={1, 2, 3, …}” then |R| must meet the “definition of the smallest transfinite cardinal” and |R| = |N| by Doron’s given requirements.