Hokulele
Deleterious Slab of Damnation
Possibly I need to unpack selfless a bit more. I see selfless as incorporating something of that 'love your neighbour as yourself' - the aspect that one loves oneself can be lost by some Xtians, and that is unhealthy. I see selflessness opposed to things like greed, in contrast to relating to others for what you can get out of them (although that does not mean that if you enjoy someone's company you are being selfish!).
That makes more sense. Thanks for clarifying.