I was just fishing for stories. It's sad that I am in real life a kind, fun, gentle and sincere fellow. That doesn't get me far. The few times I go undercover and become a woo predicting, bending and sugggesting makes me more attarctive to the ladies is a sad state of our community.
Well, I guess I'll tackle the last point first. If I'm at all convincing when I claim that I have AMAZING PSYCHIC POWERS and I can do a half-assed cold reading and/or spoonbend, then the only rational response is shock, awe and a little fear. This is because the general public is conditioned to be amazed by the supernatural. There is "no explanation" for what they just saw, so it rightfully rocks them to their core when they see it happen.
On the other hand, if I claim I'm a mentalist or </shudder> a magician, then the audience is conditioned to expect corny jokes, card tricks and spongeballs. Assuming that I'm one of the few who avoid those obvious cliches and I present strong, impactful material, I may get praise and admiration for my cleverness or dexterity but I will not get the aforementioned shock and awe. This is because no matter how amazing my performance or "abilities" are, at some level the audience is aware that "it's just a trick".
The hardest part of being an "ethical" mystery performer is trying to prime your audience for an emotional reaction without relying on the supernatural as a crutch. It is possible, but rare. The easier (but still effective) way is to go for emotions like nostalgia, humor and/or excitement. (ex: Lance Burton, Mac King, Sigfried and Roy) To really get your audience to feel the unsettling and intoxicating rush of "real" magic takes a mastery of material, setting and character that few of us will ever attain. Rag on David Blaine all you want, but it's his creepy, deadpan persona that sells the Balducci levitation as a miracle.
Okay, that went long, I promise I'll get to the "wife" thing soon.
