If I may be so bold... it's pretty bizarre that you're willing to engage humber in a discussion about physics.
Yes, you may be so bold.
It was fun at first. Trying to explain things to him forced me to think more deeply on the subject, improving my own understanding.
Now talking with Humber is getting old. [/understatement]
I'm already planning to give up on him, but I thought it would be worth one last try, so I spent some time writing up a more detailed explaination of frames of reference for him, to see if he can finally "get it"...
Humber...
I'm going to make one last attempt at explaining the frames of reference thing to you. If you still don't get it after this, I just don't care any more. You're on your own.
There is no such thing as absolute velocity.
There is no such thing as zero velocity either.
Velocity only exists relative to something else.
When we measure velocity, we have to choose what velocity we want to call zero when measuring the velocities of other objects. Normally we choose to call the velocity of our local environment zero, for convenience. On the ground, we use the velocity of the surface of the earth. In a plane, we use the velocity of the plane. In a train, we use the velocity of the train.
But these points of zero velocity are entirely arbitrary. We could choose any zero-point we want, and the laws of physics would still work the same, the difference in velocities would remain the same, and the outcome of events would remain the same.
Whatever speed we choose to call zero,
that is our frame of reference. (It should be noted that a frame of reference
does not change even if the velocity of the object it was chosen to match does. This seems to be something you have trouble understanding.)
Let's say you're on a train travelling at 10 mph, and you throw a ball at 10 mph, and it hits someone in the head. Using the train as the frame of reference, the ball was moving at 10 mph, and the passenger's head was stationary. For someone outside the train, watching it go past, from their frame of reference the ball was stationary, and the passenger's head was moving at 10 mph.
Because there is no such thing as absolute velocity, it
doesn't matter what frame of reference you are using. Everything works out the same. Whether you're using the ground, the train, or a plane flying overhead as your frame of reference, the
relative velocity between the ball and head remains the same, and the outcome remains the same.
We choose our frame of reference purely for the sake of convenience and ease of understanding. What frame of reference we choose to use makes no difference to that is happening. All that matters is the mass and relative velocities of the objects and environment involved; these remain the same, regardless of which frame of reference we choose to use.
Sometimes, if we take two situations that seem completely different at first glance, and look at them from a different frame of reference, we can see that the situations are really the same.
For example, a skateboarder hitting a car vs. a car hitting a skateboarder. At first glance, you'd think that a car hitting a skateboarder at 60 mph would be different from a skateboarder hitting a car at 60 mph, because the car is a lot bigger and heavier, but let's compare these two situations from equivalent frames of reference...
Situation A:
A skateboarder is standing stationary to the road on his skateboard. A West-bound car is headed toward him at 60 mph. Because the skateboarder is moving at 0 mph relative to the road, we'll set our frame of reference to 0 mph relative to the road (reference A).
Situation B:
A skateboarder is travelling 60 mph East on his skateboard, heading toward a stationary car. Because the Skateboarder is moving at 60 mph East relative to the road, we'll set our frame of reference to 60 mph East, relative to the road (reference B).
In situation A from reference A, the skateboarder appears to be stationary and a car appears to be travelling West at 60 mph toward him.
In situation B from reference B, the skateboarder appears to be stationary and a car appears to be travelling West at 60 mph toward him.
In situation A from reference A, the skateboarder is struck by the car, which imparts exactly enough kinetic energy into him so that he is now travelling West at 60 mph.
In situation B from reference B, the skateboarder is struck by the car, which imparts exactly enough kinetic energy into him so that he is now travelling West at 60 mph.
You'll notice that in both situations, using a frame of reference equal to the skateboarder's initial velocity, the exact same thing happens, and the exact same amount of energy is imparted to the skateboarder from the car.
You'll also notice that in situation B, when the skateboarder struck the car, the frame of reference continued to move at the skateboarder's
initial velocity. A frame of reference does not change velocity, even if the object it was originally based on does.
Newton's laws of motion are symmetrical. No matter what frame of reference you look at an event, the results are always the same.
Your idea that a car colliding with a person is somehow different from a person colliding with a car, or that a ball colliding with a house is somehow different from a house colliding with a ball, violates the symmetry of these laws.
Newton's laws of physics work the same no matter what frame of reference you are using, and identical situations produce identical results.
If a cart is moving downwind at wind speed in a 10 mph Westerly wind, using 10 mph West relative to the ground as your frame of reference:
the air is motionless, the cart is motionless and the ground is moving 10 mph East.
If a cart is stationary on an indoor treadmill with a belt moving 10 mph East, using 0 mph relative to the ground as your frame of reference:
the air is motionless, the cart is motionless and the ground is moving 10 mph East.
The situations are identical and the results will be identical