No Nick, you are simply Wrong. And this is why I say you don't know what you are talking about.
The material worldview doesn't invalidate any deeply cherished beliefs. It simply sheds new light on them. If selfhood is simply a brain process, then.... then nothing. It is still selfhood. I am still me. "I" and "me" are still completely valid notions. "Self" is still completely valid. It just means that I -- the entity that is typing this sentence -- am a complex biological robot made of elementary particles. So what? WHAT IS YOUR POINT?
Well, there are a couple of points.
For a start, yes, selfhood can be considered completely valid at the level of a functioning self-contained organism embedded within its environment. It's valid, no doubt about it. I wouldn't get too far in communicating, or life in general, if I didn't accept this.
However, if you want to investigate the nature of
consciousness, if you are attracted to doing this, then I think it's also valid, if not actually
necessary, to start to examine some of the neural processes that create our daily "experience" and take them apart a bit, seeing how reality can be modelled with or without them. To me this is simply an aspect of the scientific endeavour.
Secondarily, if you
are interested, and you don't apply a full range of scientific techniques, including reductionist analysis, to your investigation, then you don't know what you might miss. If you shut the door on certain avenues of exploration then you simply have no idea what goes on down those paths. It could be that there is a far more profound and deeper reality awaiting you. It could be that there is not. But if you don't look you don't know. Anyway, for me, I think that if the subject of your investigation is this thing we call "consciousness" then I don't think you're going to get much of a rounded perspective without looking.
Consider, by way of example, your perspective on
experience. The model you subscribe to drives you to conclude that all that exists
experiences. I guess you're happy with this conclusion. I would not be.
You can consider the behaviour of organisms. You can consider the behaviour of particles. There are whole other levels between.
Nick