Fundamentalism and Children

What slimething said (made me laugh)... and gayak.

You can't just say indoctrination is fine and dandy when you really mean your brand of indoctrination-- you must be evenhanded about it. Why would it be okay to indoctrinate a child with threats of hell and not hatred of Americans or Jews? Why would it be okay to indoctrinate kids to believe that the creator of the universe killed his kid for them and not that the creator of the universe wants them to give up their life for him? Is it okay for a parent to tell a kid they'll go to hell if they get a blood transfusion? How about it if a parent tells their kid that the child's suffering is due to original sin or that hurricanes are due to abortionists? When you endorse one brand of indoctrination, you lose the right to comment on all the others--because every one thinks their faith is the good one--the true one-- the one the kiddies must have to be saved. Mistating peoples' positions, exaggerating, creating strawmen, or sugarcoating the kind of "indoctrination" you are talking about, doesn't change the basic premise. Is it generally good or harmful to kids to allow--even encourage their parents to label and indoctrinate their children with whatever faith meme they've been infected with? I would much prefer to inoculate children against faith in general by teaching them that faith and feelings are a bad way to know anything useful or true.

Here is a notion I'd approve of for general guidelines on raising critically thinking children.

http://www.fortunecity.com/emachines/e11/86/dawkins2.html
 
I think it is funny that people call what others do to their children indoctrination but like to think what they do to their own children is education.

The difference being that in order to educate someone you must be teaching them the truth. Indoctrination is teaching them anything but the truth. If it were true, it would be education.
 
Would it be too much to ask that a few more people chime in and defend the Constitution here as well, and notify him that even though they share his ideological goal of ending the reign of religion over the minds of men, they disagree with his proposed means?

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Well, it always irks me when people use "the law" as thought it's some divinely inspired rule of absolute morality. So I don't really care about defending the Constitution in and of itself.

But I will say that I find the idea of arresting or fining people for taking their kids to church/synagogue amazingly creepy and I'm certain if you were to start a poll at various atheist websites, you'd find that it's an extreme minority position.
Because it's a "fringe" opinion, I'm not getting my panties in a wad over it, but if there were some actual political movement to make it happen, I'd absolutely actively oppose it. As I think most atheists would.
I don't think it'll ever happen anyway, though. Maybe in 100 years or something, but I'll be dead by then. And hopefully religion will begin dieing a natural death before then, anyway.
 
http://www.asca.org.au/childabuse/ca_definitions.html

Psychological Harm (Emotional Abuse): Emotional abuse is defined as any ‘act by a person having the care of a child which results in the child suffering any kind of significant emotional deprivation or trauma.’ Behaviours that cause psychological harm include acts by a parent or other person that damage the cognitive and emotional development of a child or young person. The harm resulting from these abusive behaviours can include: emotional deprivation and trauma; the serious impairment of a child’s or young person’s social, emotional, cognitive or intellectual development, disturbance of a child’s or young person’s behaviour.

(Bolding mine)

Teaching children lies is definitely abuse.
 
I'd at least like to see public forums, television shows, and the like where people can discuss and bring attention to the "faith is good" meme. Everybody knows it's good to read to your kids, right? I think it should be similarly common knowledge that teaching beliefs as "higher truths" can be damaging-- and isn't helpful for all the things it claims to be helpful for (inculcating morality, for example). I think some pretty creepy stuff gets passed on to kids in the name of some nebulous "higher good", and it frustrates me how it is sort of taboo even to mention it--to suggest that it's cruel and untrue and ignorance promoting.

Those who demand the right to indoctrinate or discipline their children without question or government concern... encourage others to do the same-- and who will speak up when other parents are telling their kids that you are the cause of all evil in the world and shouldn't be trusted? Who will speak up when those kids hate your kids because of what your kids do or don't believe? How can this "don't criticize faith" meme ever result in anything good? What wars and cults will these kids grow up to drag your loved ones into?

We encourage bike helmets--and safety belts to protect the brains of kids-- I think encouraging the dismantling of the "faith as a means to truth" meme is equally important. Lots of people claim to have higher truths--many have been proven to be wrong or deluded-- NONE have been proven to actually have any divine truths... nor have such things been shown to exist. Isn't it time to let kids in on this fact?
 
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Well, it always irks me when people use "the law" as thought it's some divinely inspired rule of absolute morality. So I don't really care about defending the Constitution in and of itself.

But I will say that I find the idea of arresting or fining people for taking their kids to church/synagogue amazingly creepy and I'm certain if you were to start a poll at various atheist websites, you'd find that it's an extreme minority position.
Because it's a "fringe" opinion, I'm not getting my panties in a wad over it, but if there were some actual political movement to make it happen, I'd absolutely actively oppose it. As I think most atheists would.
I don't think it'll ever happen anyway, though. Maybe in 100 years or something, but I'll be dead by then. And hopefully religion will begin dieing a natural death before then, anyway.

Thanks for the reply.

This is an internet forum, and I understand that weird things get said on an internet forum. I'm not losing sleep that qayak will take control of the government of Canada and start closing churches. I'm not expecting the Supreme Court of the US to suddenly decide that the right to the free exercise of religion doesn't actually include telling your children that God exists. I am sure that God, the Goddess, all the other gods, and the Buddha are not going to become a civil infraction any time soon, even if you tell your kids and the neighbor's kids about them.

On the other hand, the point I was making was that if someone comes on this forum and says something weird that favors religion, they get about twenty people jumping on them questioning their intelligence, their truthfulness, and their level of education. In fact, it doesn't really have to be something weird at all. If you say something nice about religion, or the religious, be prepared to be set upon by a wolf pack.

On the other hand, if someone comes on this forum and says anything at all, no matter how outrageous, that is anti-religious, they will be met with either respectful silence, or congratulations and encouragement.

qayak's proposal, which appears completely sincere, is nuts. Really. If taken seriously, it's loopy with a capital L. (I respect Loopy)

So, I just ask that some people he respects let him know that. Let him know that just being anti-religion isn't enough to get pats on the back around here. In all seriousness, I think you understand that, as well intentioned as his proposals are, actually implementing them would be the work of a tyrant, and would overthrow the legal principles that are in practice in both the US and Canada.

He deserves to know that's what you are thinking.

And, maybe I have misjudged the people here. Maybe you (collectively, not just KellyB) really think he's got a grand idea, and that I should be clapped in irons for taking my son to a synagogue. (Rest assured I would be clapped in irons, because I can assure you there's no way in Hell that I would pay such a ticket.) If that's what you think, he deserves to know that, too.
 
Meadmaker said:
On the other hand, the point I was making was that if someone comes on this forum and says something weird that favors religion, they get about twenty people jumping on them questioning their intelligence, their truthfulness, and their level of education. In fact, it doesn't really have to be something weird at all. If you say something nice about religion, or the religious, be prepared to be set upon by a wolf pack.

On the other hand, if someone comes on this forum and says anything at all, no matter how outrageous, that is anti-religious, they will be met with either respectful silence, or congratulations and encouragement.

That's just human nature. People are slow to criticise what they see as "their side". I'm sort of a-political, and it always amazes me how "liberals" just want to defend even the most corrupt liberal politicians, and the same thing happens with conservatives and conservative politicians.
With religion, we always hear that the moderates enable the extremists, and it's probably true.
The thing is...atheism has basically no "power" at this point. So I personally don't feel a need to 'self-regulate from within'. I guess I sort of worry what people might think who sort of stumble in here and lurk and come across threads like these. They would probably get the impression that atheists are all a bunch of fanatical zealots who want to bring back the lions in amphitheatres, but that's a different issue.

But anyway, I guess the threshold for outrage is always higher for people within a group than it is for those on the "other side". Atheistic skeptics aren't any better about this than any other group. We're just human like that.
 
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So, I just ask that some people he respects let him know that. Let him know that just being anti-religion isn't enough to get pats on the back around here.

First off, if they don't agree with me 100%, I don't respect them! :D

Second, I am not anti-religious. people can believe anything they want. I am anti-push your fairy tales onto children. There is a subtle but important difference.

And, maybe I have misjudged the people here. Maybe you (collectively, not just KellyB) really think he's got a grand idea, and that I should be clapped in irons for taking my son to a synagogue.

That's it, shame them into agreeing with you.:p

Come on Mead. I know there isn't going to be a law like the one I proposed passed anytime soon but if one came about, I would support it. I do not see it as a violation of anyone's rights. Hell, it took legislation to get parents to put seatbelts on their kids in cars and helmets on their heads when riding bikes. Many people thought that was an infringement on parental rights. They were wrong.

Take your son to synagogue,
 
And I hate to defend "my side" by finger pointing...but seriously...where was the Christian outrage over this?

http://www.infidels.org/library/modern/mathew/arguments.html#bush

George Bush on atheism and patriotism
"Did George Bush really say that atheists should not be considered citizens?"

The following exchange took place at the Chicago airport between Robert I. Sherman of American Atheist Press and George Bush, on August 27 1987. Sherman is a fully accredited reporter, and was present by invitation as a member of the press corps. The Republican presidential nominee was there to announce federal disaster relief for Illinois. The discussion turned to the presidential primary:

RS:
"What will you do to win the votes of Americans who are atheists?"
GB:
"I guess I'm pretty weak in the atheist community. Faith in God is important to me."
RS:
"Surely you recognize the equal citizenship and patriotism of Americans who are atheists?"
GB:
"No, I don't know that atheists should be considered as citizens, nor should they be considered patriots. This is one nation under God."

So...we had in very recent history the actual President of the US saying he didn't support "us" having equal citizenship here.
And there's qayak, a guy on a message board with an opinion that most of us think is quite a bit over the top, but benign.
So yeah...we might have a double standard, and that's not something to be proud of.
But seriously...it really doesn't matter in the grand scheme of things.
 
So...we had in very recent history the actual President of the US saying he didn't support "us" having equal citizenship here.

As I've asked before and received no answer from the Defenders of Faith: Where do you think G.H. Bush got this stance? Did he come up with it on the spot? Did his Rice Krispies tell him that during breakfast?

My guess is Mom and Dad. Is there a better one around?
 
The thing is...atheism has basically no "power" at this point. So I personally don't feel a need to 'self-regulate from within'.

Hasn't that always been the way of religions? Don't fix a problem, even though you are fully aware of it, until somone forces you to.

And isn't that the definition of evil totalitarianism. Someone who will not address the evil they do because no one has the power to stop them.

Religions are losing their power. Not so long ago, Mead and his fellow zealots could have had me arrested, tortured and executed. I bet many wish they still could! :D Now, they are relying on atheists to help set me straight. How the mighty have fallen.

I guess I sort of worry what people might think who sort of stumble in here and lurk and come across threads like these. They would probably get the impression that atheists are all a bunch of fanatical zealots who want to bring back the lions in amphitheatres, but that's a different issue.

As long as us little atheists just sit quietly and don't express an opinion we are tolerated, but god forbid we have something to say, or worse yet, something to say about religion! This will not do!

Personally, I couldn't care less if some believer gets upset. And, I am not here to make friends so I really don't care if someone reading this thread gets weak kneed and fearful in the presence of an atheist.

and I most assuredly don't think that Meadmakers dearly held religious believes are any reason for me to not question the morality of anything. I don't think that someone's religious beliefs are an excuse for immoral behaviour.
 
I'm sorry, but I don't know enough about how children in North Korea are indoctrinated to know what you are referring to here.


Do you know about the thousands of homeless children accused of witchcraft in Kinshasa?
 
I find the idea of arresting or fining people for taking their kids to church/synagogue amazingly creepy and I'm certain if you were to start a poll at various atheist websites, you'd find that it's an extreme minority position.
I agree with you. It's a fascist position. I hope it's a minority position.

Because it's a "fringe" opinion, I'm not getting my panties in a wad over it, but if there were some actual political movement to make it happen, I'd absolutely actively oppose it. As I think most atheists would.
I know I would. I've been an atheist practically all my life. I was an atheist while I was an acolyte, lighting candles in Sunday services.

Parents have the right to pass on their values to their children, even values you consider wrong. There is no law which will punish a parent for teaching his children to hate people of another religion, or people of another race. While I oppose such teachings, and concede that they are damaging to society, I also oppose making them illegal. The way to counteract them is with education, not legislation.
 
And I hate to defend "my side" by finger pointing...but seriously...where was the Christian outrage over this?

As I recall the incident, there was plenty of Christian outrage over it. OK. Maybe not outrage. However, there was an awful lot of embarrassed mumbling and comments that perhaps the Vice President had not carefully considered his remarks.

Also, that was a long time ago. There are people who were not born when that incident took place who will celebrate his son's departure from office by raising a glass at their favorite watering hole.
 
Re: the GHW Bush quote.

Although made a generation ago, I had recalled the incident, or thought I had. I wanted to see if I could find a record of Christian comments about the quote. Since it was made pre-web, I wasn't optimistic, but I figured it was worth a google.

It turns out that what I actually recall was some press coverage of American Atheists Inc. who brought up the issue some time after GHWB became President. It must have been that, because prior to that, there is no record that the quote was actually made. It was allegedly made during a press conference, but there is no audio, video, or written transcript of the exchange, and no reporter other than Sherman (the source of the quote) has any memory of it.

More info:
http://en.wikiquote.org/wiki/Talk:George_H._W._Bush


ETA:
http://friendlyatheist.com/2007/04/27/coming-out-of-the-atheist-closet/
 
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As I've asked before and received no answer from the Defenders of Faith: Where do you think G.H. Bush got this stance? Did he come up with it on the spot? Did his Rice Krispies tell him that during breakfast?

My guess is Mom and Dad. Is there a better one around?

Do you want an answer? As we've seen, it's doubtful the quote is accurate, but certainly George H.W. Bush does not have a high opinion of atheism. It's reasonable to assume his parents probably influenced him significantly in that regard.

What's your point?
 
, Mead and his fellow zealots ..
I've typed too much already today, but just a quick note here. I'm a member of a synagogue, but I don't believe in God. I'm guessing that about 1/3 of the congregation there has no more faith than I do.

A lot of people call me a "religious apologist", and I've stopped objecting to the term because, well, the shoe fits.
 
I've typed too much already today, but just a quick note here. I'm a member of a synagogue, but I don't believe in God. I'm guessing that about 1/3 of the congregation there has no more faith than I do.

A lot of people call me a "religious apologist", and I've stopped objecting to the term because, well, the shoe fits.

I didn't mean "religious" zealot! :D:D:D
 
Who is talking about arresting parents or putting them in leg irons? Don't you think the Dawkins piece is a good piece for all parents to read? http://www.fortunecity.com/emachines/e11/86/dawkins2.html --and worth discussing or even posting in schools? What is so good about indoctrination that you'd be willing to suffer and allow other kids to suffer so that you can keep people from questioning your childrearing practices. Heck, I had strangers voicing their opinions that I was nursing my kid too long.

It is weird how people step around the topic to make it into this issue where people are under arrest for taking their kids to church. Is anyone suggesting that? Let us not forget what religions do when unchecked: http://www.canada.com/vancouversun/news/story.html?id=0d8a9b8d-1862-4cea-8757-d28fabaea96a&p=2... Do you want government to stay out of peoples' religious practices if it means more young girls married off to old men and raped? Why should the government not be at least as concerned about the brain damage religions can cause as they are about head injuries by bikes? How much are you willing to protect the practices of ALL religions so that you can protect yours-- what if the Jehovah Witness kid down the street didn't get a blood transfusion because it's taboo to discuss that "not anything goes" in the name of religion. What if the Muslim kids in America are raised to see non-Muslims as enemies they must convert or kill because "faith is good" and "should not be questioned"? Isn't it sick that our troups were going to have that horrible "left behind" video game sent to them in a care charitible care package--that's a videogame where the goal is to convert non-Christians or kill them! That's disturbing... and not talking about it or bringing our laws to bear on the topic allows the ugliness to fester.

Don't children have a freedom of religion as well? Is it freedom if they are told they will suffer forever unless they believe a certain unbelievable story? If not "scrutinizing faith" means that kids are routinely told the earth was 6000 years old, then that is wrong and immoral, isn't it? Those who protect religion at all costs imagine that religion does something great, but they never tell us what it is and they imagine people being put in leg irons for taking their kids to church which is soooooo unlikely (a strawman); whereas, the abuses above ARE occurring... they're prevalent and growing and festering behind this "mustn't question faith" hysteria--Fundies--Jesus Camp indoctrination... kids dead because prayers or exorcisms are supposed to fix physical and mental illnesses. Kids made stupid and afraid to think because of this crap dumped in this head and society silently pretending that it's all good. If their parents are too stupid and indoctrinated to support their thinking-- isn't it good that there are adults out there willing to listen and help them out? Is this abuse all fine with you so long as you can shove your "true woo" in your kids head"? Why are you afraid of the challenge if the faith you are indoctrinating isn't harmful or is good and beneficial. Doesn't that speak for itself? Where do you draw the line with what religions allow and how? Do you think nothing should be done with religious abuses, ever? Would you have told Andrea Yates to have another kid despite her post partum psychosis because god doesn't give you more than you can handle? Is it okay to scare kids with threats of hell? Is it really okay to tell them they are saved and better because of a story they believe??

These institutions get huge tax breaks which means that tax payers pay for them. Should there not be some guidelines? The Mormon and Catholic churches (and others I'm sure) own profitable businesses... so does Sylvia Browne-- is there no oversight? Can't we at least have a public mottos, proclaimations and discussions about the value of faith, feeling, beliefs, and religion versus facts, critical thinking, the good of the whole, and truth?

Demonizing those who dare to say that many religious practices are, in essence, taking away the freedom of religion from kids, is avoiding the topic. Do you think we shouldn't talk badly or discuss or bring to attention to racist parenting practices or those which promote bigotry or sloppy thinking or makes kids vulnerable to cults and authoritarian figures? Do you think bike helmet and car seat laws are unfair to parents? Do you think anyone is advocating jailing or putting leg irons on such parents-- or is public education the goal? The bluster of the apologists misses the entire point of the discussion-- as it always does.

If nothing else, mockery, satire, and humor are always an avenue for raising consciousness.

A society has a vested interest in it's children. The society supports the children via tax dollars in education and food and medical care when the parents cannot. We put the child in foster care when the parents are deemed abusive and aim to educate them so they can be better parents.

We need to be able to talk about the harms of faith and the whole meme that "faith is good" and "secularism is bad" without the smoke and mirrors. Neither Dawkins nor anyone else is advocating locking people in jail. It's raising public awareness and responsibility to children that we are advocating. That's what bike helmet laws do--how many people are really fined, and how harmful is it? I got fined when my dogs rand loose. Why does the mere mention of a fine cause such a strong reaction some people? What are people really afraid of? Why can't faith be scrutinized like racism, politics, or any other ideal, motto, other parenting practices, or groupthink? If nothing untoward is going on, what have religions got to fear? It is only those who teach lies as truth and hellfire and bigotry that will be questioned-- have their tax exempt status revoked--have their members educated on better childrearing practices--have their wrist slapped in an effort to force them to think.

But none of this can happen so long as the moderates rush to protect their own beliefs and thus make all religious practices off limits scrutiny-- remember, every religion thinks they are moderate, right, true, and more moral than the rest. But what you allow for one-- you must allow for all... even the ones you find abhorrent and harmful. If Christian parents can't be scrutinized then neither can Satanist parents. When it comes to belief in invisible entities, we have to make laws that apply equally to all who believe and don't believe in those entities.
 
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