Should prostitution be legal?

should prostitution be legal?

  • yes

    Votes: 166 87.8%
  • no

    Votes: 7 3.7%
  • maybe

    Votes: 10 5.3%
  • on planet X all we do is screw.

    Votes: 6 3.2%

  • Total voters
    189
I see no reason prostitution should be illegal.

As long as the provider is providing of his/her own free will, I don't see a problem.
 
Think about this once:

You just know that at some time back in history everything was unconstrained sex.

Then there came a point in time where intelligent creatures started to operate a little outside the realm of instinct and started to choose mates based on characteristics that they adored in one another. And then if some other competing creature started to horn in on that creature's territory, a bloody battle developed.

Then such creatures became civilized. Then we decided you just can't go around killing someone for taking your selected mate away from you.

So we made laws.

Then man became so smart that we decided that early sex is bad for a number of reasons and passed laws about THAT...even though we all know that everybody likes youth, beauty and sex (i.e. look at these teaches getting it on with young students. Look at all the so called perverts we have in jail. People who may be no more perverted then YOU!...but simply have the b***s to take the chance of not getting caught.

And then we decided that it is okay to have guys hop in the sack with 100 women in a years time, if it is with mutual consent, and as long as there is no charge. Yet we decided it is worse if we allow people to engage in sex if they pay for it? Hmmmmm.

And then sex laws became even MORE convoluted to the point it is called prostitution if you pay someone to watch THEM have sex, even though you yourself never engaged in it! (A minister near me is serving prison time for this!)

And because more and more laws got passed as the years went on, to include voyeurism, that it now is actually a very unfair system.

It is unfair because for every person that gets caught there is someone else who is engaging in voyeuriustic behavior with their own adolescent children or step children. There are people who set up telescopes in high rises/apts. and spy on each other naked, yet don't get caught. There are people who look up smut on the internet and don't get caught.

It is swept under the rug when a 19 year old man has sex with a 17 year old. But NOT overlooked if the man is 37! Even though the 19 year old and the 37 year old may have had the same selfish thoughts on their mind, without the thought of marriage in the future. OR, it's possible the 37 year old is the one who has marriage on his mind and wants a spunky young mate, and the 19 year old is just a pig! It's just become a real mess to sort all this out.

I am running out of time here, but I can really get going on a rant regarding this whole sex subjectmatter and how unfair it has become.

If they want so many aspects of sex to be illegal..and they want to conduct this fairly..then we really should have searches conducted in every home, including what is downloaded and inspectors should talk to all school kids to see what goes on in their homes. A whole litenny of things.
 
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Think about this once:

You just know that at some time back in history everything was unconstrained sex.

Then there came a point in time where intelligent creatures started to operate a little outside the realm of instinct and started to choose mates based on characteristics that they adored in one another. And then if some other competing creature started to horn in on that creature's territory, a bloody battle developed.

Then such creatures became civilized. Then we decided you just can't go around killing someone for taking your selected mate away from you.

So we made laws.

Then man became so smart that we decided that early sex is bad for a number of reasons and passed laws about THAT...even though we all know that everybody likes youth, beauty and sex (i.e. look at these teaches getting it on with young students. Look at all the so called perverts we have in jail. People who may be no more perverted then YOU!...but simply have the b***s to take the chance of not getting caught.

And then we decided that it is okay to have guys hop in the sack with 100 women in a years time, if it is with mutual consent, and as long as there is no charge. Yet we decided it is worse if we allow people to engage in sex if they pay for it? Hmmmmm.

And then sex laws became even MORE convoluted to the point it is called prostitution if you pay someone to watch THEM have sex, even though you yourself never engaged in it! (A minister near me is serving prison time for this!)

And because more and more laws got passed as the years went on, to include voyeurism, that it now is actually a very unfair system.

It is unfair because for every person that gets caught there is someone else who is engaging in voyeuriustic behavior with their own adolescent children or step children. There are people who set up telescopes in high rises/apts. and spy on each other naked, yet don't get caught. There are people who look up smut on the internet and don't get caught.

It is swept under the rug when a 19 year old man has sex with a 17 year old. But NOT overlooked if the man is 37! Even though the 19 year old and the 37 year old may have had the same selfish thoughts on their mind, without the thought of marriage in the future. OR, it's possible the 37 year old is the one who has marriage on his mind and wants a spunky young mate, and the 19 year old is just a pig! It's just become a real mess to sort all this out.

I am running out of time here, but I can really get going on a rant regarding this whole sex subjectmatter and how unfair it has become.

If they want so many aspects of sex to be illegal..and they want to conduct this fairly..then we really should have searches conducted in every home, including what is downloaded and inspectors should talk to all school kids to see what goes on in their homes. A whole litenny of things.
Get back to us when you are sober and have a point to make regarding the OP. Thanks.
 
So the only real opposition here is saying that it shouldn't be legal or illegal, just magically abolished along with poverty...

Sounds like the political choice of Neverland! Excuse me, I am going to walk unarmed through a city in Iraq. Ta :) !
 
Dann, I have to admit to being a little bit shocked at your attitude. I can't figure whether you're close to a prostitute who was severely damaged by the game, whether you're just a prude, or what the problem actually is, because you're just not making sense. You appear to have suspended what I'd seen as a great, critical and objective brain, to take up an extreme feminist position on this subject.


feminists are pretty split on this issue actually, there are extreme feminists who disagree on this issue. many feel that its liberating sexually and that the only reason prostitution is frowned upon is because of the roles imposed on women in society (to not want sex that much), and the other side thinks that its damaging to women to be prostitutes and the whole sex industry is ****ed up. I think its a bit of both and really depends on the woman who is a prostitute.
 
You have yet to show why selling sexual labour is any different from selling any other labour.


I guess I got ignored when I brought up my point about how its different before. If you are flipping hamburgers and someone steals one, you wont be as bothered as you would if someone raped you. Both are theft of whats being sold but have extremely different effects on the worker.
 
I guess I got ignored when I brought up my point about how its different before. If you are flipping hamburgers and someone steals one, you wont be as bothered as you would if someone raped you. Both are theft of whats being sold but have extremely different effects on the worker.

Rape is not theft, even to a prostitute. Most prostitutes get their money before turning the trick. Theft would be the john grabbing the money afterward and taking off with it.

Rape is rape.
 
Wait its not. Dang so much for my moonlighting job. I agree with Shemp it should be free.
 
I voted "Yes", because I think it's silly that you can "give away" sex for free, but it's illegal if you charge for it.
And besides, why should good looking people get sex simply for looking good?

I voted "yes" but I the option I prefered wasn't up there, which is of course, "duh!"
 
Rape is not theft, even to a prostitute. Most prostitutes get their money before turning the trick. Theft would be the john grabbing the money afterward and taking off with it.

Rape is rape.

Mmmh, would it really be "theft"? While it would fall into the idea of theft, don't get me wrong, but isn't there a special term for backing out on a deal?

Scamming, maybe?
 
I guess I got ignored when I brought up my point about how its different before. If you are flipping hamburgers and someone steals one, you wont be as bothered as you would if someone raped you. Both are theft of whats being sold but have extremely different effects on the worker.


I think when Mark initially stated that there's no difference between a fast food job and prostitution, I think he meant that they're both jobs, a way to earn money. There's a bigger risk involved in the sex trade, of course, physically and emotionally. However, I believe that all jobs can be compared in this way. For example, there is a big difference between flipping burgers and flying a commercial airliner. A fry cook who accidently puts too much salt on the fries doesn't cost his company thirty million dollars and three hundred lives with his mistake. If you're not the type of person who is comfortable with this kind of responsibility, flying is not for you. Likewise, if you're looking at the pros and cons of a job in the sex trade, you'd have to consider whether or not you are the type of person who could handle performing sex acts on people you may not find attractive. (Or any of the other cons involved.)


And to dann, I must say you were very cruel towards Mark in this thread. I don't know you, but you strike me as a person who cannot fathom why anyone would consider visiting a prostitute, because you're own life experiences blind you to others' realities. Perhaps you were one of those people who had a girlfriend from age thirteen on, always in a relationship, or attractive enough to go to the bar and flirt up a one night stand. Do you know what it's like to be told you are ugly? Do you know what it feels like to have a woman laugh at you when you ask her out? Can you relate to constant rejection, finding that women will not even engage in conversation with you, or even look you in the eye? I can.


I would not avail myself of a bawdy house, even if it was legal. It wouldn't feel right for me, but I can certainly see where others would benefit from some intimate human contact, even if it is a bit cold and materialistic.
 
Dann,

Women's rights are at the top of my mind when discussing this issue. This means making prostitution as safe and as secure a job as it can possibly be. The direct follow-on from this is to ensure that the job is regulated, controlled and protected by the state and various components of the state, like the police, tax office, health department and so on. When prostitution is illegal, the prostitutes themselves can not call upon the protection of the state when something bad happens. Surely you know this.

I feel I need to point something out here which seems to be eluding you - not all prostitutes are women. There are many male prostitutes out there as well, servicing both male and female clients. These prostitutes also need their rights protected. Please do not continue in your mistaken assumption that prostitution is solely a female issue.

Furthermore, there are many people who work in the sex industry, not just prostitutes. There are receptionists, cleaners, madams, etc., etc. If prostitution is illegal, then all of these people are also affected. They too can be charged with offenses and lose their income or go to gaol if found guilty.

What Hairy does not seem to understand no matter how many times I point it out to him is that I never argued for or against legalization.


Then why are you posting here? The topic of the thread was legalisation, not the morality or cause behind prostitution. If you're not arguing one way or another, why not start a new thread, and we can discuss it in there? The core issue being discussed here is whether or not it should be legal, and the majority - the overwhelming majority - agrees that it should be legal.

Go back and read the Australian statistics. There aren't many women who actually enjoy this line of work. See what happens to people who are prostitutes. It's all in the statistics, not in my "judgment"! But I can see that reality does not affect you as long as you have heard about one who lived to tell the tale and didn't think that it was all bad.


Dann, have you read that article? I think not, as you are extracting conclusions which are not supported by the text. Firstly, the article has no statistics on any enjoyment of the work. It's worth noting that of all of the prostitutes interviewed, none of them seemed to say "I hate it" or anything along those lines. One actually said "it's a lot of fun" and another says she hadn't had an orgasm until she started working as a prostitute.

Secondly, the article clearly states that there usually is a mix of reasons for someone to enter prostitution, not just financial ones. 25% of the people interviewed entered prostitution to "satisfy curiosity about self or prostitution". It seems to me that even if we removed your claimed central cause (poverty) we would still have a sizable group of people selling sex for money because they were curious about it.

Yes, for some women it appears to be necessary to sell sex in order to be able to afford going on a holiday. Some women cannot get a college degree unless they pay their way through college by being prostitutes.


This is not the case in Australia back in 1991. Attending university was basically free at that point. You're misinterpreting the data there, it states that these people were engaging in prostitution to enable them to afford luxury items, not day to day requirements.


You mean the fact that 36,7 percent are unemployed and 18,7 percent have to support a family? Or are you thinking of the addicts or the ones who have debts or have to pay their way through college?
http://www.aic.gov.au/publications/lcj/working/ch4-2.html
No, I guess you are probably thinking of the 3,1 percent allegedly in the business for sexual pleasure, aren’t you? And the prostitute giving you a b.j. belongs to the 3,1 percent, of course ….


Firstly, I've never used the services of a prostitute. Please refrain from making such assumptions.

Secondly, the reason I like that article is it basically blows your argument out of the water. It clearly states that not all people enter prostitution based on monetary reasons. Note the 44% under "to earn more money than present" - in other words, these people are earning enough money to live, and do not NEED to become prostitutes. That they do indicates that a lot of money can be made from selling sex, in a very short time. There is no indication that these people remain prostitutes once they have made the amount of cash they need for that luxury item or expensive trip.

Prostitution is a question of poverty, not of sex.


You are yet to prove this opinion. You need to come up with better evidence.

It is more than distinct from that of the OP. It criticizes the OP and the arguments in favour of either legalization of or prohibition against prostitution.


If people are going into prostitution because they are poor, why add all the issues illegality brings as well??? You're claiming these people are being exploited because of their financial situation, why add extra scope for exploitation by making it all illegal??

Give the prostitutes better alternatives (i.e. eliminate poverty, feed the prostitutes and their children), , however, and prostitution vanishes. It's been done before. Eliminate poverty, and prostitution disappears. When people are impoverished, prostitution returns.


Dried nostril pickings.

Prostitution does not just exist because of poverty. The documents you linked before, if you had read them, would show you this. There are a myriad of reasons why people go into prostitution, not just long term financial ones.

Furthermore, as long as people have sex, prostitution in some form will exist. Thus it is better to legalise it and control it with government regulations, than let the criminal underworld control it.

Cheers,
TGHO
 
Mmmh, would it really be "theft"? While it would fall into the idea of theft, don't get me wrong, but isn't there a special term for backing out on a deal?

Scamming, maybe?

Well, the john did steal the money. ;)

If he didn't pay for services agreed to, it would be a breach of contract. If you order off a menu and then refuse to pay, that is a breach of contract.

But the point is, not paying a prostitute is not rape. Many people believe that a prostitute cannot be raped. This is, of course, not true.
 
When Dann says "eliminate poverty" why do I suspect he means "take from those who have earned their wealth (e.g. entrepreneurs, business owners, or anyone else who actually works for a living) and give to every bum with a sob-story?"

Also, the most of the nations that have legalized or decriminalized prostitution (e.g. Netherlands, Australia, Germany) have more extensive and far-reaching welfare systems in place than the U.S.. If Dann was right, and prostitution was solely driven by economic desperation, these nations wouldn't have brothels and red light districts because poor women (note how he ignores male prostitutes) could easily go on the dole rather than "exploit themselves."

Of course, I have a feeling that Dann will say that European socialism isn't socialist enough for his taste.
 
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Come to any major city in the US, and I can show you that there are arrogant atheists, fundamentalist Christians, and racist whites and blacks.

But, statistically speaking, what is the ratio between prostitutes that are run by gangsters, and those that are not, especially when it's legalized?

Exactly my point.

Legalize prostitution and you get rid of that lifestyle, and probably get rid of a lot of crime in any major city.

Even the streets work according to supply and demand. Take away the demand for hookers from the street by supplying legalized whore houses, and presto, no more hookers on the street.
 
No, I don't believe you. That is the lifestyle you see from your experience. That is the lifestyle that is in the media and regurgitated by a system that wants to keep prostitution illegal. You see these women on the street and that is your idea of what a prostitute is.

Your idea is not nearly the reality of prostitution.

Thats for telling me what I know, and what I believe.

The lifestyle of a prostitute here in NA, is that way because it is illegal. I have already said that.

The reality is, in North American, prostitutes will always be known that way, UNTIL IT IS LEGALIZED.

Get it?
 
The reality is, in North American, prostitutes will always be known that way, UNTIL IT IS LEGALIZED.

Get it?

No, I don't get it. I live in North America and I do not view prostitution the way you describe. I know there is a large group of prostitutes that do not get publicity, are not drug addicts and do not stand around on street corners. They make more money than most other people I know. They are also very shrewd and intelligent businesswomen.

Are you trying to tell me that your view of prostitution is based on the fact that it is illegal? (And technically, in many jurisdictions, prostitution is not illegal, discussing it and offering to pay for sex is.) My views on prostitution come from an examination of the evidence and lifestyle combined with reasoning. I don't care if it is legal or not.

I would also lay much of the blame for the way prostitution is viewed and how prostitutes are treated at the feet of religion in North America. They maybe christians but they certainly don't treat people the way Christ told them to. (Wasn't his wife a prostitute?)
 
so your answer is "I fail to recognise prostitution!" It's wrong and i will not address it!"
No, I've been addressing it the whole time. Wake up!
faced with the option of leaving street prostitutes unregulated and prone to rape, pimps, drug abuse, STDs and abuse or regulating the trade to make their work safer and allowing outreach to help them out of such a situation, you'd rather not do either and just not address the option. That says a lot about you.
No, I'm talking about abolishing the need for streetwalkers to streetwalk! Your legalization plans, by the way, don't eliminate street prostitution, rape, pimps and drug abuse. That you don't want to consider this says a lot about you.
so you oppose people using the service of prostitutes, even though you regard those workers as having made a proactive choice over alternative options to make their money [such as flipping burgers] but you don't oppose people using the services of people who do flip burgers? Good logic there. :rolleyes:
I'm talking about abolishing poor women's need to sell sex. You are unable to see this from any other point of view than that of the customer who is "using the service of prostitutes" (or in your terminology "those workers"). Maybe you haven't noticed, but the burger flipper is working for an employer. The employer is the one who exploits him, buys his 'services' and sells the finished product for a profit. The burger eater, who probably cannot afford to buy a healthy meal at a proper restaurant anyway, just clogs up his own arteries ...
 
and in the meantime, while we're waiting for poverty to be "eliminated".....we do nothing?
Another very stupid question: 'and in the meantime, while we're waiting for prostitution to be "legalized" .....we do nothing?'
Right now I am trying to convince people that poverty should be eliminated in order to put an end to prostitution. That is not waiting for poverty to be eliminated and doing nothing.
idealism is acceptable when you're a teenager - it looks a lot like stupidity in adults.
Is that why you look stupid?! I think it's more than that.
 

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