Bumper sticker. . .(shudder)

Everything has a humorous side, Kathy. My mom laughed at her own cancer. Lighten up.

A cat in despondency sighed
And resolved to commit suicide
She passed under the wheels
Of eight automobiles
And under the ninth one, she died.

Not suicide. Wouldn't you try to stop someone if you knew they felt like committing suicide? Well the reality is it's getting more common and people should be aware that maybe someone they know is feeling this way. I'm sorry but this topic is way too serious to joke about.
 
Not suicide. Wouldn't you try to stop someone if you knew they felt like committing suicide? Well the reality is it's getting more common and people should be aware that maybe someone they know is feeling this way. I'm sorry but this topic is way too serious to joke about.

You would deny a terminally ill cancer patient in pain from ending their suffering themselves, thus forcing them into days or weeks more of painful torture from their ailment?

You are a cruel cruel person.
 
Not suicide. Wouldn't you try to stop someone if you knew they felt like committing suicide?
To be quite honest, I'd have to say it would depend on the reason.

Let me tell you a story:

When I was young, one of the "elders" of my church was a man I respected very much. He taught my Sunday school class and was a sponsor of the Youth for Christ group of which I was a member. He was smart and funny and a great teacher. I also liked his wife and family.

When he was 62, he was diagnosed with bone cancer. Even today, that is one of the tough ones. In the 1960's, it was equivalent to being condemned to a slow, painful death. He told the church about it, and we all prayed for him, but it didn't help. He began to decline.

A week before his medical insurance ran out, he prepared his will, cleaned up all his debts, wrote letters to his friends and loved ones, and put a bullet through his head. He decided not to put his family in financial ruin and drawn-out emotional trauma. He ended it quickly and cleanly, on his own terms. I respect his choice. If you believe in a God that would punish that great man for the Jesus-like sacrifice he made, then I have no use for your God.

Come to think of it, Jesus committed suicide. He could have lived by answering Pilate's questions, but he chose not to because of the greater good he would do.

Yeah, suicide is serious. Life is serious. Life can also be funny. So can suicide. You've just got to sniff back the tears and laugh. Laughter and tears are both responses to stress. Don't refuse to laugh at something because it also makes you cry. Do both. You will be cleansed.

Think of it, Kathy. You believe Jesus wanted you to be happy, do you not? Then honor his wishes. Lean your head back and laugh loud and long at everything. Make a joyful noise. Isn't that what you are supposed to do?
 
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To be quite honest, I'd have to say it would depend on the reason.

Let me tell you a story:

When I was young, one of the "elders" of my church was a man I respected very much. He taught my Sunday school class and was a sponsor of the Youth for Christ group of which I was a member. He was smart and funny and a great teacher. I also liked his wife and family.

When he was 62, he was diagnosed with bone cancer. Even today, that is one of the tough ones. In the 1960's, it was equivalent to being condemned to a slow, painful death. He told the church about it, and we all prayed for him, but it didn't help. He began to decline.

A week before his medical insurance ran out, he prepared his will, cleaned up all his debts, wrote letters to his friends and loved ones, and put a bullet through his head. He decided not to put his family in financial ruin and drawn-out emotional trauma. He ended it quickly and cleanly, on his own terms. I respect his choice. If you believe in a God that would punish that great man for the Jesus-like sacrifice he made, then I have no use for your God.

Come to think of it, Jesus committed suicide. He could have lived by answering Pilate's questions, but he chose not to because of the greater good he would do.

Yeah, suicide is serious. Life is serious. Life can also be funny. So can suicide. You've just got to sniff back the tears and laugh. Laughter and tears are both responses to stress. Don't refuse to laugh at something because it also makes you cry. Do both. You will be cleansed.

Think of it, Kathy. You believe Jesus wanted you to be happy, do you not? Then honor his wishes. Lean your head back and laugh loud and long at everything. Make a joyful noise. Isn't that what you are supposed to do?
That's a bloody excellent post.
 
Think of it, Kathy. You believe Jesus wanted you to be happy, do you not? Then honor his wishes. Lean your head back and laugh loud and long at everything. Make a joyful noise. Isn't that what you are supposed to do?

Actually the only thing believers were promised besides eternity is that in this world we will have trouble, but be of good cheer, Jesus overcame the world.

I still take life and death very seriously. I'm sorry to hear about your friend. Death is never pleasant. I just found out today one of my friends cancer came back and they only expect her to live a few more months. I can't help but cry.
 
Actually the only thing believers were promised besides eternity is that in this world we will have trouble, but be of good cheer, Jesus overcame the world.
As I understand, he promised more than simple eternity. People in the Biblical version of Hell have eternity. I'm thinking he kinda said heaven would be nice, not just eternal. But yeah, be of good cheer. Laugh. You can do that, can't you?

I still take life and death very seriously.
You should. Just because you take something seriously doesn't mean you can't laugh at it. You have more reason to laugh than I do, since you believe that death is not the end. I'm laughing even accepting that when I die, I'm gone forever. I just hope people remember what a good time I had when I was here. To quote the poet,

Omar Khayyam said:
And when like her, oh Saki, you shall pass
Among the Guests Star-scatter'd on the Grass,
And in your joyous errand reach the spot
Where I made One--turn down an empty Glass!


I'm sorry to hear about your friend. Death is never pleasant. I just found out today one of my friends cancer came back and they only expect her to live a few more months. I can't help but cry.
I'm truly sorry for your friend too. Terminal illness is a very difficult thing to laugh about. I just faced watching my father-in-law die in hospice care in our home. But even towards the end, he wanted to laugh. I would come to his bed and give him his meds while wearing a silly looking pigtail wig. He would chuckle as I squirted the drugs into his feeding port. Tears and laughter. We need them both. It is important that you cheer up your friend, not depress her.
 
Actually, I agree, at least as far as TNG goes. I was scared to watch it, wondering how in hell they were going to be able to come anywhere near the Spock/Kirk dynamic of the original, but somehow, they pullled it off. Spock did, however, have the honour of his role needing to be split into two roles - Data and Riker.

While I haven't seen many of the episodes, I've seen a few of the most famous ones (such as "space seed"), and also all of the movies. And while I do like the dynamic there, and while I also think Nemoy is a brilliant actor, Shatner = not so much. Sorry, but aside from a few exceptions, he's pretty consistantly bad. So I think it's more the writing and Nemoy that made it shine, and Shatner was there to fill the part. Patric Stewart is 100,000x the actor Shatner is. :boxedin:

Further, the show is about much more than the Kirk/Spock dynamic (which does has its relevance). It's about tolerance, about people finally bettering themselves rather than working for aquisition of wealth, about human kind actually ignoring their petty differences and coming together to benefit the race, rather than tear it apart with war and bigotry. That's Gene Roddenberry's whole motivation for the show - he was an incurable optimist.

-snip- although I still remain suspect of that Klingon. Masters of deception, the Klingons. My understanding of the universe is that it's not going to be fully safe until the last bird of prey is blown into smithereens. NEVER trust a Klingon.

Did I hear you right? I don't know about TOS, but in all 300+ episodes after, the Klingons are the most trustworthy species in Star Trek - aside from the Federation, of course. They have a moral code and sense of honor that is so reveared and respected, that dishonor would be a far worse fate than death itself - that includes being dishonest, or lying - something the Romulans, and to a certain extent, the Cardassians, do very well and without remorse (and, incidently, it is for that reason that the Klingons do not like either of those two races). It's just easy to piss them off, mainly because of that strong moral code and sense of honor.

Anyway, moving on....:D

Well I still believe in miracles! Perhaps we can all just try to get along, even if we don't see things eye to eye.

Wow. Out of the mouth of Kathy....

This is quite easily accomplished by utilizing the following attitude on this forum: that people aren't neccesarily wrong because they don't agree with you, or because they don't believe in god. You may believe, and that's fine. But just because you have faith doesn't make it fact. Realize this, and attempt to respect the other side in your arguing. It really is ok for people to disagree. My family, friends, people on this board, do it all the time.

Also don't forget that this is why people don't hold your opinion in a particularly high esteem (or at least, why I don't):

Using the topic of suicide for even a metephor is inappropriate in my opinion.

No topic is inappropriate for intelligent discussion. Thinking otherwise is a sign of either immaturity or narrow - mindedness; two qualities that are not exactly praised in a forum of critical thinkers.

By the way, beautiful posts Tricky. ;(
 
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Not suicide. Wouldn't you try to stop someone if you knew they felt like committing suicide? Well the reality is it's getting more common and people should be aware that maybe someone they know is feeling this way. I'm sorry but this topic is way too serious to joke about.

[Borscht Belt Comic Mode] Take my life........ Please. [/Borscht Belt Comic Mode]
:faint:
 
As I understand, he promised more than simple eternity. People in the Biblical version of Hell have eternity. I'm thinking he kinda said heaven would be nice, not just eternal. But yeah, be of good cheer. Laugh. You can do that, can't you?
The scripture that comes to my mind when you say this is...
1 Corinthians 2:8-10

the wisdom which none of the rulers of this age has understood; for if they had understood it they would not have crucified the Lord of glory;

but just as it is written,
"THINGS WHICH EYE HAS NOT SEEN AND EAR HAS NOT HEARD,
AND which HAVE NOT ENTERED THE HEART OF MAN,
ALL THAT GOD HAS PREPARED FOR THOSE WHO LOVE HIM."
For to us God revealed them through the Spirit; for the Spirit searches all things, even the depths of God.




You should. Just because you take something seriously doesn't mean you can't laugh at it. You have more reason to laugh than I do, since you believe that death is not the end. I'm laughing even accepting that when I die, I'm gone forever. I just hope people remember what a good time I had when I was here. To quote the poet,

I guess your right. I think I am just super sensative and don't like to see anyone suffer. If it wasn't for the hope of eternity I would never be able to cope with it.





I'm truly sorry for your friend too. Terminal illness is a very difficult thing to laugh about. I just faced watching my father-in-law die in hospice care in our home. But even towards the end, he wanted to laugh. I would come to his bed and give him his meds while wearing a silly looking pigtail wig. He would chuckle as I squirted the drugs into his feeding port. Tears and laughter. We need them both. It is important that you cheer up your friend, not depress her.

Thanks, I will try to keep more positive. I bought this DVD that Anne Graham Lotz did on her book about heaven that I plan to share with her. If we hang on to the promise of heaven then that hope of glory can pull us through the tough times.
 
The scripture that comes to my mind when you say this is...
1 Corinthians 2:8-10

the wisdom which none of the rulers of this age has understood; for if they had understood it they would not have crucified the Lord of glory;

but just as it is written,
"THINGS WHICH EYE HAS NOT SEEN AND EAR HAS NOT HEARD,
AND which HAVE NOT ENTERED THE HEART OF MAN,
ALL THAT GOD HAS PREPARED FOR THOSE WHO LOVE HIM."
For to us God revealed them through the Spirit; for the Spirit searches all things, even the depths of God.






I guess your right. I think I am just super sensative and don't like to see anyone suffer. If it wasn't for the hope of eternity I would never be able to cope with it.







Thanks, I will try to keep more positive. I bought this DVD that Anne Graham Lotz did on her book about heaven that I plan to share with her. If we hang on to the promise of heaven then that hope of glory can pull us through the tough times.

How do people without faith deal with death?
 
How do people without faith deal with death?

We die. We mourn those who die. We miss our loved ones like anyone else would. We don't hold on to fairy tales that says we'll meet our loved ones in Never-Never Land. After we get over our grief, we remember them with fondness and joy. Life goes on. We make the best that we can of our lives because we know that there is no replay in life.

I don't visit my father's grave. Not because I don't miss him or didn't love him - he's just not there anymore - it's a patch of ground with a headstone, that's it. He lives in my memories and that's enough.
 
Has you have said, and seemed to have forgotten;
--non sequitur--
So, there.
What is your major malfunction, Paul, has the Agent Orange rotted your once awesome brain?

Can you not differentiate between your attempt to tell me not to respond to your posts on an open forum, and my suggestion that, in response to your lament that you find Christian's don't "get" science, you need to look further afield for some who do? I did not and do not tell you how and where to post, though I am usually disappointed in the low quality crap you spit out, given your depth and range of life experience.

As you are in no way obliged to please me, but only yourself, there is little I can do about the latter.

DR
 
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We die. We mourn those who die. We miss our loved ones like anyone else would. We don't hold on to fairy tales that says we'll meet our loved ones in Never-Never Land. After we get over our grief, we remember them with fondness and joy. Life goes on. We make the best that we can of our lives because we know that there is no replay in life.

I don't visit my father's grave. Not because I don't miss him or didn't love him - he's just not there anymore - it's a patch of ground with a headstone, that's it. He lives in my memories and that's enough.

I'm sorry you lost your dad. I haven't lost either of my parents yet. I just can't help hoping that we will all see our loved ones again. Don't you at least want to have that hope? I sure do.
 
I'm sorry you lost your dad. I haven't lost either of my parents yet. I just can't help hoping that we will all see our loved ones again. Don't you at least want to have that hope? I sure do.

Nope.

As a Hindu, the only one I should see again is my husband, whom the Hindu priest said I would be married to for a hundred or so lifetimes. Anyone who predeceases me should have already been reborn.

As a Buddhist, that would mean that none of us achieved Nirvana.

As a grump, that would mean I would have to listen to my dorky friends telling me the same boring jokes over and over again.
 
We die. We mourn those who die. We miss our loved ones like anyone else would. We don't hold on to fairy tales that says we'll meet our loved ones in Never-Never Land. After we get over our grief, we remember them with fondness and joy. Life goes on. We make the best that we can of our lives because we know that there is no replay in life.

I don't visit my father's grave. Not because I don't miss him or didn't love him - he's just not there anymore - it's a patch of ground with a headstone, that's it. He lives in my memories and that's enough.
Mate, that's another exellent post - I feel much the same way. My dad died 25 years ago and my mum 12. Never once felt the need to visit their graves, but I still miss the old buggers like it was yesterday.
 
I'm sorry you lost your dad. I haven't lost either of my parents yet. I just can't help hoping that we will all see our loved ones again. Don't you at least want to have that hope? I sure do.
Mine would be skeletons only by now, so I'll pass on seeing them again.

One thing, Kathy, what are you curious about?

You don't seem to be curious about anything - your mind's made up. Why "Kurious"?
 

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