I think we can hopefully agree to disagree and move along. This is an interesting thread and I think blutoski, RemieV, and Kopji have made some excellent points.
Yep, agree to disagree is where I am with lots of people. As I say, you go your way, I'll go mine...
I agree with your comment on the thread, mainly I guess because I am - expectedly - 100% in agreement with the OP. If you've been to
EA, you'll see that while we are out to get psychics and frauds of that kind, we are cognisant of not losing track of the biggest - by an enormous margin - "para/super/ridiculous thing" of them all, religion. I'm always therefore, keen to get into topics like this.
Even you've hit a couple valid ones yourself, even if only by being an example of them. What I have taken issue with in your case is that I find intolerance so err, intolerable and your views to be based on misguided passions and that you offer nothing in place of what you seek to destroy.
I think the problem is that we got off on the wrong foot. I made a tongue-in-cheek comment to the OP - and it really was tongue in cheek, I don't defile bibles, as while I easily could from a spiritual point of view, it would be a touch childish. I figured that people wouldn't take it quite so literally. If you started out just by asking, rather than becoming abusive immediately, we wouldn't have had to have that public spat. Anyway, on with the show, enough said.
Yes, the horrors are manifold but I try to remember when I feel disdain for something concerning religion that some of the must truly wonderous things achieved by humankind has been done in the name of faith and a belief that we are more than the sum of our parts.
I have to ask, what wondrous things have been achieved in the name of faith? This is one of my tenets - if you break it right down, christianity has done very little by way of aiding human achievement. I've racked my brain inside and out and I cannot find a single example of an achievement worthy of the name which has faith as its reason for being. (And please, don't bring up Mother Theresa, there's a lengthy section of a thread I derailed onto her a week or two back.) Every scientific advance made has been done in the name of science, and the only involvement religion has had in science is in trying to suppress it.
You may try and point to morality and I'd argue that as well, on three fronts: One, the change in human morality may have happened anyway. Two, I don't accept that christianity actually teaches respect of any one or thing - aside from its god. And third, even if you can show that human morality comes from Jesus, why are the overwhelming majority of jail inmates and soldiers christian? Love thy enemies indeed. Hell, Bush and Blair are christian.
Yes, there have been some valuable christians and there are even a couple around nowadays - Rowan Williams for one. I see you mentioned Martin Luther King. He fascinates me and is one christian I would have liked to have sat and had a beer with early in his life. He had to fight very hard to find his faith, but coming from a long and distinguished line of pastors, he didn't even realise there was another alternative.
I think you don't seem to understand that at least here nobody is asking you to respect christianity but rather to be tolerant and respectful of those whose beliefs differ from yours. Now that I think about it I can't help but have a feeling of irony in that I should be more mindful of that myself. I have been rude to you and for that I apologize. If it's worth anything I can very easily empathize with your point of view.
Apology accepted and I accept that maybe I need to not go quite so stupid when someone opens up. As I said above, i'm always happy for rational debate, but when it goes silly, so do I. At least we've done a lot better than a recent sapt, where I showed why trees should get the vote. Hands shaken,
I completely understand the point about toleration of beliefs, but I am the way I am exactly because christians generally brook no criticism of their god. They will happily sit and debate theology for hours, as you allude to, but it's a waste of breath. They do, however, sit up and take notice when someone attacks them front-on as people, attacking them for their faith rather than what they believe. As you've said, each to our own!
In one way you're right; christians aren't scum because of their beliefs, when they're scum, it's because of their church. I'm not about to blame christianity for Jim Jones, but without christianity, the massacre wouldn't have happened. Almost all christians I've met find their church and their religion indivisible, hence I'm happy to attack either.
When I was a young child I was often looked after by a morbidly christian family and quickly got to learn the meaning of blasphemy when I asked why God made hindus. I think children are often the first to see the inherent flaws in such beliefs.
That's one of my problems. I was raised in very soft christian manner - no church at all, but my parents believed in a god of some kind. I had given away Santa as a bad joke by age 5 and christianity by age 8 and I've never had cause to look back on either position with regret. At age 9, I was strong enough in my distaste for the lies of christianity that I argued with my parents until they allowed to have me released from Religious Instruction (a 1-hour-a-week thing in NZ). I didn't bother even thinking about religion again until into my 20s when I made a concerted effort to find out what and why people believed. Despite studying all of the major religions, I found nothing of worth and my position has hardened over the years as I see the damage churches do.
I also find it very hard to reconcile why supposed adults can't see through something as shonky as christianity as an 8 year old child could - compare christianity to 9/11 CTists and the CTists look sane by comparison. They resort to fantasy, but no stories yet about flight 77 having been swallwed by a great fish. This is where ginarley's point is quite correct - the threat analysis approach. People think: if I'm an atheist, I'm going to die, the end. If I'm christian, I will probably die, but if there's a 1,000,000th of a % chance that I won't, then I'll play along. People like that are actually worse than the truly devout in some ways as they're kidding everyone, while the devout are only kidding themselves.
As for being young and still in an exploratory stage of life I have it on good confidence that there is no stage of life that isn't exploratory and I hope that when I get to be your age I haven't developed a similar intolerance and disrespect of others based on the beliefs they've aquired.
As I've alluded to, I bet I'm actually not anywhere as intolerant as you might think - my work means that I have to deal with a lot of christians - and for some inexplicable reason, the electrical industry has more christians per worker than any industry outside of the cloth, and I deal with electical workers and engineers every day. If I shouted at them and told them to piss off, I wouldn't make much money and I have a lot of kids to feed!
I'm with you on the learning front. When you stop learning, you're probably dead, and I think most of this actually on thread!