Transwomen are not Women - Part 15

Because that is what "protected against discrimination" means for those two specific individuals.
The military and competitive sports have carved out limited exceptions to the general application.
Almost the entire point of this thread is to argue about when carveouts should take precedence over general principles of antidiscrimation.

For example, @Emily's Cat wants a carveout whenever females find themselves in "spaces where [they]'re naked or vulnerable."
 
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I await your nitpicking about the meaning of 'regularly' in your quote
Reading tea leaves. Works every time.
So this list of 239 spans the globe and crosses a decade or two. In round numbers, there are 8 billion people in the world. Assuming half a percent are trans, and a quarter percent transwomen, that's about 20,000,000 transwomen worldwide in any given year.

The rates of violent criminal convictions (rape, murder, aggravated assault) are harder to estimate, but US figures I've seen indicate a rate of 0.4%-1% in any given year, so broad brush estimate that at a half percent. So we would expect the rate of violent criminals in the trans population, assuming it is consistent with the general population, to be about 100,000 convictions for violent crime annually, or about 274 per day. Your list of 239, spanning decades, doesn't get within orders of magnitude of representing violent crime convictions of the general population.
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For the third time, what TRA lingo/colors am I sporting?
Well there's that, down-playing the violent misogyny of those men (it's not about the numbers, it's about policies and principles that enable them, as I'm sure you know), and there's the whining that we should honour their preferred nomenclature and call them 'trans women' and refer to them as 'she' and 'her', and not remind anyone of the simple, neutral, obvious fact that they are trans-identifying males because this is 'tranny-bashing' (you being the only one to use the insult 'tranny' except when I deliberately aped your language), in order to repeatedly put words in our mouths. There's your response to one poor woman's story of being encouraged to transition, being given misinformation by doctors, regretful and angry at the medical abuse done to her, which was to blame her for taking bad advice.

No doubt you'd do similar maths to the above on numbers of people whose lives have been wrecked by being encouraged to identify out of their sex, and I'd not be surprised if you have already done so in these threads. Just a tiny proportion of people have been sterilized and hacked apart, so meh, keep flying the pride flag.

This is almost certainly an incomplete list.

It really isn't a case of lingo and colours. You are a Trans Privilege Activist. You're viciously anti-GC, anti-women's-rights, anti-science, and predictably irrational. You desperately want to protect people who have "wires crossed somewhere upstairs" from any possible upset (despite using that weirdly offensive descriptor of mental problems) at the expense of the health and welbeing of those very people, as well as women and girls generally. We are actually trying to avoid their wires getting crossed by people like you, because of the actual, measurable, well-evidenced, terrible damage it does to their minds and bodies.

I am so goddamned angry, you would not believe.
 
Yes, I don't like bigots and bullies.
That's... not the vibe you give off. At all. You vibe like you're the bully.
If you unplug from your foregone narrative, you'd see that it's all.my arguments and criticisms amount to.
If you unplug from YOUR foregone narrative, you'd see that I've never said anything hateful about trans people.

Vibe isn't about what YOU say. It's about associations other people draw between you and other things. You want to use the vibe that you get from me, while denying the vibe that I get from you. Which is hypocritical.
Factually untrue. I never say a word about them
You don't even understand what I'm talking about. "Them" is people like those men who walk around in public trying to dress like a scantily dressed underage girl. And you absolutely said a word about them. You attacked anyone who brought them up, because that's transphobic. But they are part of the vibe you give off.

If I don't get to decide my vibe, you don't get to decide yours, you hypocrite.
 
Almost the entire point of this thread is to argue about when carveouts should take precedence over general principles of antidiscrimation.
No it isn't. This is a major and fundamental error you are making here, and I'm surprised you're making it this late in the game.

The TRAs DO NOT WANT to eliminate any carveouts. They want to KEEP all the carveouts, but be allowed to transcend the barriers that carveouts create. They don't want to end separation between men's and women's sports, for example they just want trans identifying males to be able to compete against women. They don't want to change bathrooms and changing rooms to unisex, they want trans identifying males to be able to use the women's facilities. But it is VERY important to them that these remain women's spaces, no cis males allowed. It defeats their entire purpose to actually eliminate segregation entirely.

At no point have the TRA's actually advocated for a general principle of antidiscrimination over any sex segregation.
 
TRAs DO NOT WANT to eliminate any carveouts.
The two "carved out limited exceptions" mentioned by @Thermal at #16,183 were the one allowing the U.S. military to discriminate against transgender servicemembers and the one allowing the NCAA to maintain separate record books and locker rooms for females. Trans rights advocates certainly do want to see these two policies rescinded.
 
Are your belief dependent on transpeople being either sick or bad?
Mine are not.

My belief about trans identifying males is dependent upon them being male, though. My belief about trans identifying females is dependent upon them being female.
Is there no room in your philosophy for a transwoman who... check this out.. uses the men's room out of courtesy to others, and doesn't go in women's changing rooms and stuff?
They are male, so that's what they should normally do. That fits in perfectly with my beliefs about trans identifying males. Some of them do this. I think that's entirely appropriate behavior.
Under your definitions, what is that person: mentally ill, a bad person, or a perv?
No idea, just as I have no idea if a random cis male using the men's bathroom is mentally ill or a bad person or a perv. You have not provided sufficient data to make any evaluation of these questions. But that person is acting properly in regards to which facility he is using. Which is a good thing.

Since you're so into rational arguments, why is it rational to prioritize something other than sex for the purpose of sex segregation? Why should we segregate things like sports, or bathrooms, or changing rooms on some basis other than sex? Why should "gender" ever trump sex?
 
The two "carved out limited exceptions" mentioned by @Thermal at #16,183 were the one allowing the U.S. military to discriminate against transgender servicemembers and the one allowing the NCAA to maintain separate record books and locker rooms for females. Trans rights advocates certainly do want to see these two policies rescinded.
They want to rescind the first one (which ISN'T a sex-based carveout, so getting rid of it doesn't eliminate a sex-based carveout). I have never heard that they want to rescind the second one. Where are you getting that from?
 
Reading tea leaves. Works every time.
Yup, Sooooo predicable!

The Whataboutism of the "its just a few people so what's the harm" canard was predicted by @Rolfe (Item 7)

The fact that it ADDS to the danger posed to women by men is dismissed without a thought, because, as anyone reading this thread must have surely worked out by now... he doesn't give a fat rat's arse about women or their fears and concerns.

Well there's that, down-playing the violent misogyny of those men (it's not about the numbers, it's about policies and principles that enable them, as I'm sure you know), and there's the whining that we should honour their preferred nomenclature and call them 'trans women' and refer to them as 'she' and 'her', and not remind anyone of the simple, neutral, obvious fact that they are trans-identifying males because this is 'tranny-bashing' (you being the only one to use the insult 'tranny' except when I deliberately aped your language), in order to repeatedly put words in our mouths. There's your response to one poor woman's story of being encouraged to transition, being given misinformation by doctors, regretful and angry at the medical abuse done to her, which was to blame her for taking bad advice.
Indeed. These are all directly out of the TRA playbook.

When you sit at a table with Trans Rights Activists, and you agree with ANY of their talking points, you are one of them.

No doubt you'd do similar maths to the above on numbers of people whose lives have been wrecked by being encouraged to identify out of their sex, and I'd not be surprised if you have already done so in these threads. Just a tiny proportion of people have been sterilized and hacked apart, so meh, keep flying the pride flag.
Of course. It has not gone unnoticed that when the discussion turns to the pain and suffering endured by detranisitioners, he either goes radio silent, or does exactly what TRA's do... criticize the detransitioner.

This is almost certainly an incomplete list.
Indeed. It would have been exceedingly difficult to research, because mainstream media almost never publish these types of stories. For example, at the BBC, such stories will never, ever get past the filter of the LGBTQ+ desk, whose job it is to censor any account that shows transgender identifying males in a poor light, as well as to ensure that only TRA-approvedTM pronouns are used.

It really isn't a case of lingo and colours. You are a Trans Privilege Activist. You're viciously anti-GC, anti-women's-rights, anti-science, and predictably irrational. You desperately want to protect people who have "wires crossed somewhere upstairs" from any possible upset (despite using that weirdly offensive descriptor of mental problems) at the expense of the health and welbeing of those very people, as well as women and girls generally. We are actually trying to avoid their wires getting crossed by people like you, because of the actual, measurable, well-evidenced, terrible damage it does to their minds and bodies.
Absolutely 100% on the money
 
This person has a very similar attitude to my friend who is a member of our quiz/games team... a transgender identifying man who acknowledges they are male, uses the men's room and thinks that TRAs are extremist idiots who have caused a lot of harm to the majority of the transgender community.
 
This person has a very similar attitude to my friend who is a member of our quiz/games team... a transgender identifying man who acknowledges they are male, uses the men's room and thinks that TRAs are extremist idiots who have caused a lot of harm to the majority of the transgender community.
I followed Debbie Hayton's blog for several years, another who seems rational, accepts he's male, accepts any pronouns, has maintained his marriage since "transsexual" transition, and writes a gender-critical blog. Yet I still disagreed with one or two of in his opinions. He suffered the common misconception that he passed brilliantly as a woman, and was accepted as one most of the time, including at airports, where he'd usually get greeted as 'madam', when it's fairly obvious he's a transsexual, I think, to most people. I don't have a problem with that, but it did make him argue that he should be able to have his "F" on his passport and other documents (since why would anyone at customs have a clue he wasn't male - it would just cause confusion if it said "M"). He basically has the view that if people see you as a woman, you kind of are a woman, even if you're female. Gender in the eye of the beholder, so no harm done. I hold no negativity about that, but I couldn't accept it philosophically. And I started to wonder about the wisdom of his employment as a teacher in a school, although he seems harmless enough. He's quite a celeb on the GC circuit, friends of Glinner et al.
 
I read something today that linked the anti-trans people with funding from oil industries, I don't think it was peer reviewed or anything but ooh spooky.
It could be, I don't know. My life, in a sense, is linked with funding from oil industries, and so is yours.
 
Reading tea leaves. Works every time.
Ya it was really brilliant of you to figure out that I'd note the stellar shortcomings in your 'proof' of how violent these pervs are.
Well there's that, down-playing the violent misogyny of those men
Oh stop lying. i wholesale condemn each and every one. Pointing out your blatent bashing when you say 'this is how they are' is not downplaying anything.
(it's not about the numbers, it's about policies and principles that enable them, as I'm sure you know),
Then why are you posting this 'huge' List of offenders? You want to imply that them trannys are all violent pervs. 'Here, lookit this huge List!' But neither you nor the other bigot that made The List were sharp enough to realize how woefully short it was for making that point. Hell, the doofus that compiled it wasn't even bright enough to make sure the offenders were all trans. You'd think he wouldn't have to be deceptive if there were so many to choose from, wouldn't you?
and there's the whining that we should honour their preferred nomenclature and call them 'trans women' and refer to them as 'she' and 'her'
Again, a reasonably sharp poster would have seen that I don't do that, re I consistently refer to the criminals like Bryson and Merager as 'he'.
and not remind anyone of the simple, neutral, obvious fact that they are trans-identifying males because this is 'tranny-bashing'
Blatant bashing is not 'neutral reminding'.
(you being the only one to use the insult 'tranny' except when I deliberately aped your language),
Damn straight. Sin is in the intent, ya ape.
in order to repeatedly put words in our mouths.
Your own words are doing a stellar job of that.
There's your response to one poor woman's story of being encouraged to transition, being given misinformation by doctors, regretful and angry at the medical abuse done to her,
Lol, for such a commited bigot, you'd think you could keep your own terms straight. That 'woman' was both born a male and says he identifies as a gay male. I respect that and have called him a 'he' consistently. But you genuinely don't give a ◊◊◊◊, Captain Biological Realist, and can't even be bothered to get even that straight. That shines a bright light on your global contempt for anyone wrestling with their identity, even when they are now on your side.
which was to blame her for taking bad advice.
Another bald faced lie. You're on a roll! I sympathized with HIM for getting a lot of bad advice. That wasn't his fault, he trusted the doctors. Now he's believing other cranks. This guy has had an exceptionally rough time of it, and I hope the highly troubled life he has led gets better.
No doubt you'd do similar maths to the above on numbers of people whose lives have been wrecked by being encouraged to identify out of their sex, and I'd not be surprised if you have already done so in these threads.
Then enjoy being surprised. You might consider reading the words posted instead. I've said consistently that minors shouldnt get therapies till they are well into adulthood, and adults need to find their own way. A good start is to at least try to be open minded, which means not listening to people like you who hold up lists of them tranny pervs for.. some reason. Well-intentioned, I'm sure.
Just a tiny proportion of people have been sterilized and hacked apart, so meh, keep flying the pride flag.
Again, please lie about someone else's postings. You're boring the ◊◊◊◊ out of me.
This is almost certainly an incomplete list.
Ya think? Actually, no, you're still wrong. It ain't 'almost certainly' anything to anyone with two ◊◊◊◊◊◊◊ neurons firing. It's for goddamned sure incomplete. The issue is it is off by several orders of magnitude to represent anything at all, except representing your contempt for transpeople.
It really isn't a case of lingo and colours. You are a Trans Privilege Activist. You're viciously anti-GC, anti-women's-rights, anti-science, and predictably irrational.
More bald claims, powerfully wrong. Ya boring.
You desperately want to protect people who have "wires crossed somewhere upstairs" from any possible upset (despite using that weirdly offensive descriptor of mental problems) at the expense of the health and welbeing of those very people, as well as women and girls generally. We are actually trying to avoid their wires getting crossed by people like you, because of the actual, measurable, well-evidenced, terrible damage it does to their minds and bodies.
Oh my God, this is priceless. Seems I read you all wrong. The truth is, you are a compassionate helper who is trying to protect Da Trans. And you're trying to protect them from me! This is ◊◊◊◊◊◊◊ hysterical. Do you post this ◊◊◊◊ with a straight face?
I am so goddamned angry, you would not believe.
Ill bet. Maybe you could go pleasure yourself while looking over The List again. Pretty sure it wouldn't be the first time.
 
For example, you've argued that it is acceptable to use the term "transwoman"
Because it is the one that appears in the medical literature, common speaking and in the media, and the trans community it refers to takes no issue with it. 'Universal' is a good descriptor.
but unacceptable to use "trans identified male" which refers to the same phenomenon but is used by gender critical feminists rather than trans rights advocates.
It does not appear in the medical literature, does not appear in common speaking and the media, and the trans community it refers to takes issue with it. 'Derogatory dog whistle' is a good descriptor.

So is that one of many examples of me using the lingo and wearing the colors, or was that it? I mean, you got yourself quite a giggle out of it, so I'm assuming you have something more than this?
 
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Mine are not.

My belief about trans identifying males is dependent upon them being male, though. My belief about trans identifying females is dependent upon them being female.

They are male, so that's what they should normally do. That fits in perfectly with my beliefs about trans identifying males. Some of them do this. I think that's entirely appropriate behavior.
You know I was replying to theprestige, right? And that he laid out three and only three options earlier in the thread, that I am referencing here?
No idea, just as I have no idea if a random cis male using the men's bathroom is mentally ill or a bad person or a perv. You have not provided sufficient data to make any evaluation of these questions.
Mr theprestige gives three options. You see that your scenario is not restricted as his is, yes? I of course agree wth you that there should be a wider spectrum of options ,but it is his *checks notes* considered and rational conclusion that they are all one of the three, and other options don't exist.
But that person is acting properly in regards to which facility he is using. Which is a good thing.

Since you're so into rational arguments, why is it rational to prioritize something other than sex for the purpose of sex segregation?
It would not be. Why do you ask?
Why should we segregate things like sports, or bathrooms, or changing rooms on some basis other than sex?
We already do. Many sports allow both sexes to compete, and some bathrooms are fully gender neutral. Changing rooms can be gender neutral, with minor partitioning and screening, but are best made sex segregated IMO, and based on sex.
Why should "gender" ever trump sex?
For example, when what is between your legs is irrelevant. Let's play a quick round of What Would You Do? (open to any other players, too):

A male coworker says they have internally wrestled with their identity for years, and would now like to be referred to by feminine pronouns.

For my part, I'd say 'yeah, whatever' and do so. No skin off my back, and I believe that people really do go through this. This is a clear example of where I think gender should trump sex. There is no point or benefit to saying "no bud, you're a man and I will refer to you as one whether you like it or not. I'm a science guy you see".

Now say he wants to use the women's changing rooms and shower facilities at the workplace. Whether this is legal or not in our hypothetical jurisdiction, I would actively discourage this, unless the women he was sharing the place with were accepting of it, at which point I would defer to their judgement. It's the skin off their backs, now.

Now a new female worker enters the picture, who also expects to use the changing area. I'd say we are now getting into a more difficult situation of policing the changing room to make sure everyone is okay with this, because if one woman is not cool with it, it should not be allowed (shades of Sandy Peggie). So I'd think we'd have to talk to the transwoman, and ask if it would be really uncomfortable if he could use the men's changing area, which he already had used in the past, in the interests of other women's comfort.

This is where I really get conflicted. Everyone is supportive of their coworker and their arrangement. One is not. So does this one person outweigh everyone else? It seems fair to me that she should. But we don't think the same way about one transwoman's comfort outweighing anyone else's.
 
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Yup, Sooooo predicable!

The Whataboutism of the "its just a few people so what's the harm" canard was predicted by @Rolfe (Item 7)
And you were all wrong, as usual. The harm is entirely real. It's relevance to restroom policies is not demonstrated. Only one story that I saw had the bad trans in a restroom, taking a pic under the adjacent stall, and even that one was unclear. The actual media never referred to a 'transwoman', just a woman. Seems the low-credibility basher sites kind of tacked the trans bit on the tail end.

The point of The List is transparently to make people revolted by those violent cross dressing perverts.
The fact that it ADDS to the danger posed to women by men is dismissed without a thought, because, as anyone reading this thread must have surely worked out by now... he doesn't give a fat rat's arse about women or their fears and concerns.
So you keep saying. Youre lying, but dont let that stop you.
Indeed. These are all directly out of the TRA playbook.

When you sit at a table with Trans Rights Activists, and you agree with ANY of their talking points, you are one of them.
And that's a stupid thing to say, and you know it full and well. You know i agree with the GCs that transwomen should not be in women's changing areas, yes? So by your dip ◊◊◊◊ reasoning, I must be one of you, too. Yet that's not the song you keep singing.
Of course. It has not gone unnoticed that when the discussion turns to the pain and suffering endured by detranisitioners, he either goes radio silent, or does exactly what TRA's do... criticize the detransitioner.
Liar. I've shown nothing but sympathy for that guy, actually a lot more than you guys have. He's had a bad time of it, his whole young life.
Indeed. It would have been exceedingly difficult to research, because mainstream media almost never publish these types of stories. For example, at the BBC, such stories will never, ever get past the filter of the LGBTQ+ desk, whose job it is to censor any account that shows transgender identifying males in a poor light, as well as to ensure that only TRA-approvedTM pronouns are used.
*adjusts tin foil hat*
 
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A male coworker says they have internally wrestled with their identity for years, and would now like to be referred to by feminine pronouns.
Well I wouldn't comply. Its a dude... I would simply not use gendered pronouns .. I would use they/them or their name in third person, and you or their name in first person.

Now say he wants to use the women's changing rooms and shower facilities at the workplace. Whether this is legal or not in our hypothetical jurisdiction, I would actively discourage this, unless the women he was sharing the place with were accepting of it, at which point I would defer to their judgement. It's the skin off their backs, now.
There is no situation in which I would accept any male routinely using the women's changing area, no matter what girlie feels they might claim to have.
I expect you would call me unkind... but if I did what you did, I would consider that being both unkind and a betrayal of my women co-workers. I would choose not to betray them.

Now a new female worker enters the picture, who also expects to use the changing area. I'd say we are now getting into a more difficult situation of policing the changing room to make sure everyone is okay with this, because if one woman is not cool with it, it should not be allowed (shades of Sandy Peggie). So I'd think we'd have to talk to the transwoman, and ask if it would be really uncomfortable if he could use the men's changing area, which he already had used in the past, in the interests of other women's comfort. This is where I really get conflicted. Everyone is supportive of their coworker and their arrangement. One is not. So does this one person outweigh everyone else? It seems fair to me that she should. But we don't think the same way about one transwoman's comfort outweighing anyone else's.
This is a complete misrepresentation of the situation in the Sandie Peggie case. It was not a case of a new female worker coming along and objecting to an existing accommodation that all the coworkers had come to. Sandie Peggie had been working at Victoria Hospital for 30 years. Upton didn't start working there until August 2023, the same month as Peggie's first complaint about him being in the women's changing area.

It was also not a case of one woman alone objecting to Upton's presence. According to testimony provided during the employment tribunal in July 2025, she named thirteen coworkers, including receptionists and a consultant, who she stated agreed with her that Upton should not be using the female changing rooms. She testified they were reluctant to speak publicly because of the toxic environment at NHS Fife. Coworkers were threatened with disciplinary action and even dismissal if they showed public support for Ms Peggie
 
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