TragicMonkey
Poisoned Waffles
Again, you are arguing against something in your own head, not what I actually said. Re-read. Did I say that I "believe that at least part of the multiplicity of causes for my success is because someone wanted to give females a leg up regardless of whether my abilities were actually up to the task"? No, I did not. I merely didn't completely rule out one possible factor in a myriad of combined factors. Is your ego so delicate that you cannot admit the possibility that out of a hundred thousand causes for something one of them might include somebody at some point having a partial motivation of trying to help out women?Gotcha. Nice to know that you believe that at least part of the multiplicity of causes for my success is because someone wanted to give females a leg up regardless of whether my abilities were actually up to the task. I'm only where I'm at because some portion of my career was handed to me just because I'm a female.
I guess perhaps this sort of thinking is easier for you because you seem to imagine you can read people's minds. You know for certain that you got your current job simply and solely because the person who hired you liked your resume-stated points, and there wasn't a billionth of a percent of that decision influenced by them being irritated by the previous candidate's shrill voice, or that you went to the same school that their favorite cousin did, or that you made a funny joke, or that your ring reminded them of their grandma's, or that they noticed that everybody else in the department was a man.
It's not a slight against you that myriad factors played into complex events. That's just how things happen in a complex universe. It's just as wrong to insist that no, there is only one possible cause and it's because you're a woman as it is to insist that no, there is only one possible cause and it's something else.