Sure, that's what porn is. So what? There are lots of things I'm not personally willing to do which shouldn't be banned. I'm also not willing to perform musical theater, but that doesn't mean no one else should. What I am personally willing or not willing to do isn't a useful metric for social policy decisions.
That's a good point. Porn itself isn't inherently bad, and it doesn't cause most people to commit rape. There is even some evidence that it
reduces the tendency to rape. But there is one 'drug' that is a big part of our culture which
is inherently bad - alcohol. It's a
poison, which just happens to have an effect on the brain that many people crave - and some are addicted to. Another bad thing about alcohol is that children are permitted to watch people drinking it, even when behaving badly.
But one thing about it is far worse - alcohol is a
date-rape drug. In fact, alcohol is the drug most commonly involved in drug-facilitated sexual assaults. Alcohol also reduces inhibitions and increases aggressiveness, especially in men. You would think that these properties would cause it to be banned in places where it might facilitate rape. But no, it flows freely and is often the main attraction in places where women (and men) are most vulnerable.
If you are really concerned about reducing rape, target the activities that are mostly responsible. Porn isn't it. Ask the police and rape crisis centers etc., and they will tell you what is. Our society isn't so much a 'rape culture' as it is a
drug culture, especially alcohol. And this isn't just causing rapes. It's also responsible for the majority of violent acts, and a large proportion of road injuries and deaths, and destruction of property (ask
me about that!), and serious disease and medical conditions too, as well as wreaking relationships and lives.
Yet strangly,
Poem doesn't appear to have mentioned the word 'alcohol' even once in this thread. Why not? Could it be that
Poem is focusing on something of minor importance while ignoring the elephant in the room? I hope I am wrong, and
Poem is actually leading the charge to get rid of this scourge from our society. And I certianly hope (s)he doesn't indulge in it - even a little bit - as that would be the height of hypocricy.