This is an excellent summary of the situation.
I posted much of this previously, regarding vehicle fire stats and the main risk of a battery fire being collision damage. It was, of course, ignored.
As a slightly OT addendum, having completed my fire-fighting refresher course at work, there is more emphasis on Li-ion battery fires simply because that battery technology is more common.
The main cause of such fires are not cars or small consumer electronics (e.g. notebooks) but intermediate size devices such as e-scooters, which are frequently of shoddy and illegally unsafe standards, to the extent that my employers are restricting when they can be stored for charging on-prem. There are no such restrictions for EVs.
I believe the UK sees proportionately far more e-bike.scooter fires than e-car fires.
Dedicated Li-ion extinguishers, such as AVD, are also becoming more common, though the classic pairing of water/CO2 is still the standard, and water is still recommended for Li-ion fires.