You have reached your conclusions, and I have reached mine. You could not possibly convince me all my experience is invalid. If its any comfort to you every psychiatrists I ever saw wrote in notes they never though I would see that I was delusional. I can go to another house in the same town, and hear mediums converse with the spirit world. I opted to believe in my own immortal spirit. Not in the scientific theory we are just a bag of chemicals. I fought that war and won it. I know my mind is free with or without anti psychotic drugs. I can control my thoughts either way, and have a lifetime of doing it to prove it. That is because consciousness is not a product of the brain. It is the immortal spirit using the brain, and consciousness filters down into it through the etheric counterpart.
Mind over matter is a real thing.