Nitpicking, selective reading, and exaggerating
Warning: Don't read this message, it's for Dancing David; but if you want to, I will not stop you, it might also make you a better poster.
Dear Dancing David:
As we write messages here for the big audience aside from you and me, we are also judging each other. You have called me a troll countless times, and I really don't mind except as an annoyance from what I might consider a mosquito buzzing outside the screen window but can't get to me.
However, the more I read of your messages directed toward me, the more I seem to see a kind of poster's personality that might serve you to know yourself better, and arrive sooner at enlightenment or Nirvana if you believe in enlightenment and Nirvana, if not then it will be good just the same for the improvement of your poster's conduct here.
First, I think you are overly defensive of Buddhism withal claiming to be skeptical of many beliefs and observances in Buddhism, that are common knowledge to people who do take the time and attention to investigate Buddhism, but who don't have any concern for it except an academic curiosity about it.
Second, I think you do engage in unproductive argumentative practices which are not conducive toward the attainment of truths in regard to the theories and practices of Buddhism.
In respect of the two above statements I have the impression specifically that you are habituated to nitpicking, selective reading, and exaggeration, just to win points, but does not bring people who are sincerely trying to find out, what exactly Buddhism is all about and why Westerners of intellectual leanings should be excited about it.
I think your posting custom is very counteractive to right thought in Buddhism which is counteractive to right speech in Buddhism, as you have learned it from your Vietnamese master, Thich Naht Hahn.
By the way, if you have to choose between Thich and Randi for a teacher for the meaning of life, tell me which one of the two you will choose, and why.
Back to nitpicking, selective reading, and exaggeration, in order that you will have the last word -- and I seem to be engaging in last words here myself apparently -- apparently only because I am pursuing my idealism to help a brother in skeptical criticism -- you object to my statement,
"If the problems are due to neuro-chemistry and organism idiosyncrasy, then you should repair to pharmaceutics and surgery, or seek asylum in a mental safehouse." -- #92
You certainly know about neuro-pharmaceuticals and neuro-surgery, and you should consider the whole message in my post #92
(see Annex), instead of nitpicking, selective reading, and exaggeration, to score an overly argumentative point.
Try this experiment, read the whole message of #92, and rewrite it to produce the big picture in a short statement in fifty words or less, to say the same message as intended by the author. See then if it justifies your nitpicking, selective reading, and exaggerating account of my thoughts.
Anyway, let all recite:
Om Mani Padme Hum (from Yrreg) -- Owata loo niam (from Dancing David)-- ohm millihenry picofarad ohm (from Epepke)
And hahaha softly.
Yrreg
Annex
Depression & anxiety can involve distorted thought patterns, which are cause/symptoms(?) of distress. Attachment of one's personal worth to achieving some goal is a real problem. I may think that I am nothing & completely worthless & a failure as a human being because I'm overweight, or because I do not have so much as a PhD, let alone a Nobel prize. (Yes, this seriously was one of my personal ones.) Either I've failed to reach some goal or I imagine I will always fail... Now in CBT you sit down and gather evidence to show yourself that your thinking is distorted. Some of that means letting go of some of your desires - realising that they do not define you, and that in fact having them can cause you suffering. Not that there is anything wrong with the specific desire (it's good to be fit, well-educated etc), just with your pathological attachment to it. Desire, attachment, suffering - you see the analogy. –- Cajela #83
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No need for CBT and Buddhism for the problems above.
If the problems are due to neuro-chemistry and organism idiosyncrasy, then you should repair to pharmaceutics and surgery, or seek asylum in a mental safehouse.
If they are due to or appear in the normal course of growing up and adjusting to the realities of life, then consult your parents who are emotionally stable and have come from well-adjusted folks themselves, if not your parents then parents of people who are well-adjusted in life and in society and who give the credit to their parents.
If you have no parents, then try the school guidance counselors who are successful parents themselves, as evidenced by their children well-adjusted to life and society.
Yrreg