But yes, this is much more useful than a personal anecdote. See, it's not hard.
But, here's the thing.
You know that it's very easy for an adult to get whatever they want. You know that in some jurisdictions, it's fairly easy for a child to get what they want. You know that, to the extent that there are obstacles placed in the way of minors, you consider those to be bigoted transphobic things put in place by evil right wingers....blah, blah, blah.
You know all this, and yet you go through this pretense of questioning whether these are just anecdotes.
It's kind of silly, and kind of annoying.
Why not just admit what you really want? Why not just be honest about your position? Or....maybe I've misjudged. Here is what I think your position is. Let me know if I'm wrong.
When an adult seeks gender affirming care, whether hormones or surgery, that person should receive it. Perhaps there is consultation with a doctor, but actually requiring a mental health examination or diagnosis would be an unreasonable burden on someone seeking medical care.
As for children, I'm not sure of your exact position. I'm fairly certain, I hope, that you don't think an eleven year old should be able to walk into a doctor's office and ask for, and receive, gender affirming treatments such as hormones, puberty blockers, or surgery. But a 16 year old? I'm not sure what you think.
I'm fairly certain that you do not think that a parent should have absolute control that would prevent their child from seeking, and receiving, gender affriming care, but I don't know exactly what other procedures, in the absence of parental permission, you think ought to be required.
If there is parental permission, I think your position would be that a minor could seek, and receive, any gender affirming care that a doctor advises. There shouldn't be any other "gatekeeper". Or....is that not correct?
And as far as "social transition", i.e. school activity and how the child is referred to and treated at school, you don't think parents should have any influence at all on this. Am I right?
In general, you want to make it easy to receive gender affirming care, and you want treatment as the preferred gender to simply be automatic on request. Am I right?
I'm just asking for honesty. These aren't trick questions.