Do you have any kids at all? If you do, you certainly didn't learn much from them.
Of course, that wouldn't surprise me much, either. You don't impress me as the type who would learn from anything they didn't like.
Yes, I do have kids.
I still stand by my statement that the more normal way for things to play out is for children to end up with similar worldviews and beliefs to their parents.
Now, there has been a great deal of effort put into breaking the bonds between generations and indoctrinating younger people in the west to be hateful toward their race, their parents, their ancestors, their society, their traditions, etc. - particularly in the last 100 years or so, and this has met with a great deal of success - but even so, I think it is more normal for people to resemble their parents ideologically than not.
If this weren't the case, you probably wouldn't see leftists spending so much time lamenting how racists indoctrinate their children and perpetuate racism across the generations. You probably also wouldn't see so much talk about how people tend to inherit the political party of their parents, etc.
Ironically I myself am an example of someone ending up with beliefs 180 degrees from my parents, but that came quite late in my life and there wasn't a whiff of rebelliousness about it. I was a very non-rebellious kid for the most part.
My parents were anti-racist lefties to a profound degree, and so was I until well into adulthood. You say I don't strike you as the kind of person to learn from things I don't like? I assure you, when I started to have my ideological shift, I did not like the things I was coming to accept one bit.
It has actually been a profoundly unpleasant worldview to adopt. It is not a source of encouragement or hope, and I have wished sometimes I could return to ignorance.