Let me start with the
definition of 'theory', in a scientific sense:
Your first "theory" is not a theory at all, because it is not based on a body of facts confirmed by observation and experiment. As it stands, it is simply something you made up out of thin air.
You appear also not to understand the concept of burden of proof. Theory 1 is your claim, so it is up to you to provide evidence (observation and experiment) to support that theory.
You claim that your various anecdotes are evidence of the supernatural (or whatever you want to call it), but that will only take you that far. What you are missing is the part in between anecdote and theory. For your "theory" to be accepted, you would need to show the chain of logic, observation and experiment that leads from your stories to your explanation of how the whole of reality is as you describe it- an illusory universe dreamed by an "Infinite Intelligence", with a spare god in another dimension as back-up.