The virus isn't that dangerous outside the 80+ or already-sick groups, but the sheer numbers will mean health systems will be overwhelmed.
That depends on what you mean when you say not that dangerous:
COVID-19 Fatality Rate by AGE:
80+ years old: 14.8%
70-79 years old: 8.0%
60-69 years old: 3.6%
50-59 years old: 1.3%
(...)
COVID-19 Fatality Rate by SEX:
Male: 2.8%
Female: 1.7%
Age, Sex, Existing Conditions of COVID-19 Cases and Deaths (Worldometer, Feb. 22, 2020)
You are right about pre-existing conditions being very important, but even as a relatively healthy male in the 60-69 age group, I'd still prefer not to get it:
COVID-19 Fatality Rate by COMORBIDITY:
no pre-existing conditions: 0.9%
The Chinese whistle-blower doctor was 34!