I've seen this and considered it. I don't find it very compelling. I haven't responded because I don't feel strongly about changing your mind on this point.
I'm responding now so that you know I've considered your points, and you don't have to keep trying to bring them to my attention.
I don't think the difference is all that significant, for drunk amateurs in the heat of the moment.
It's not an absolute given. Some people like edging breathplay. Some people like being choked out. Drunk amateurs in the throes of passion aren't going to be delivering precision-engineered sexual experiences. It's not nefarious to earn less than a perfect 10.0 in the erotic breathplay event at the sexual olympics.
Again, drunk amateur.
And again, well-intentioned people get themselves and each other killed all the time during risky play.
This isn't even pure Kremlinology. It's Kremlinology, adulterated by a desire to fit a predetermined conclusion. You're inventing a whole theory of risky behavior that is less concerned with describing reality, than with describing a justification for charging him with murder.
Again, drunk amateur.
Again, drunk amateur.
Nope. To me, "drunk amateur" cannot at all explain carrying on choking someone for a long period of time (at least 45 seconds longer, but even the defence's own witness estimate 2-3 minutes longer) after the person whom you're choking has become unconscious, limp, unresponsive with their eyes closed.
I'll say again (and I know you disagree, but I think it bears repeating): it's one thing to choke somebody to unconsciousness within the confines of performing erotic asphyxiation - even though this by definition takes things further than required for erotic asphyxiation*.
If Person A chokes Person B as part of a sex game involving erotic asphyxiation, it will be blindingly obvious to Person A exactly when Person B becomes unconscious. It may take a matter of mere seconds for Person A to choke Person B such that they fall unconscious. It may take several tens of seconds. But either way, there's (IMO) no chance that Person A, with his/her hands around Person B's neck, would fail to notice the point when Person B goes limp, closes his/her eyes and becomes unresponsive.
And when that point is reached, I submit that Person A - if he/she really is only intent on heightening Person B's sexual arousal through this technique and has no intent on harming Person B - would fairly immediately release his/her choke grip on Person B's neck, thereby allowing Person B to regain consciousness fairly quickly.
What, IMO, Person A would NOT do at the point when Person B visibly falls unconscious (again, if Person A really is only intent on heightening Person B's sexual arousal through this technique and has no intent on harming Person B) is to
continue choking Person B -
not just for several seconds or even up to 20-30 seconds longer, but for a minimum of 45 seconds longer, and more likely somewhere between 1 and 3 minutes longer..
And this, to me, is the crux of the matter in respect of the medical evidence and the certain actions of the defendant (certain in respect of the fact that he MUST by definition have continued to choke Millane for something between 45 seconds and 3 minutes
after she fell unconscious). I just can't see this prolonged extension of the choke hold beyond unconsciousness compatible in any way with either a) a person whose sole intent was to try to facilitate the heightened sexual arousal of the person he was choking, or b) some sort of imprecision borne of having had too much to drink (and btw, the defendant had had several drinks that evening, yes - but he was in no way falling-down drunk or even unstable-drunk).
I guess, in the first instance, we'll see what the jury has to make of this issue....
* And again, I say "by definition" you've gone too far if the person you're choking lapses into unconsciousness, because of course once the person you're choking is unconscious, there's no chance whatsoever of any level of heightened sexual arousal. The aim of the game is to take the person to a point just
before they fall unconscious.