Which is interesting and sad all at once, given how important cis women supposedly were, not too long ago. I guess they're thrown under the bus when it becomes inconvenient.
Which is still where I'm at with all of this. All the stupid, arbitrary, and societal imposed roles on women that I could have swore getting rid of was like, super important not that long ago have now come roaring back, put back in, and the same people are demonizing anyone doesn't think they exist because that's somehow "denying the existence" of people who subvert them.
Society: "You're a man. You can't love other men."
Change: "That's a stupid, arbitrary standard. It should not exist. Who you love isn't a defining characteristic of your gender."
Me: "Gotcha, with you. That makes sense. I agree."
Society: "You're a woman. That means you have to stay home and raise the kids."
Change: "That's a stupid, arbitrary standard. It should not exist. Domestic rules are not defining characteristics of your gender."
Me: "Gotcha, with you. That makes sense. I agree."
Society: "You're a man. You can't wear makeup and dresses."
Change: "That's a stupid, arbitrary standard. It should not exist. Manner of dress is not a defining characteristic of your gender."
Me: "Gotcha, with you. That makes sense. I agree."
Society: "Men and women are fundamentally and meaningfully different beyond simple biology, so we have to impose roles on them."
Change: "No that's wrong. The only difference between men and women are biological difference. We shouldn't be imposing standards on the genders that aren't biologically necessary."
Me: "I am totally onboard with this."
Change: "Okay new rule. All the stuff we just got rid of, it's back."
Me: "Wait, what?"
Change: "There's a new group that needs all that societal role, non-biological stuff back, so they can use it in non-traditional ways."
Me: "Okay wait..."
Change: "BIGOT! How dare you deny their self identify! Are you saying these people don't exist!"
Me: "No I'm saying nothing of the sort, I'm just not sure if this makes any sense."
Change: "BIGOT!"
I've said it dozen times across almost as many threads about this topic. You can't have any meaningful concept of "transgenderism" and no meaningful difference between the sexes outside of pure biology.
