They didn't
have to do any of that to get a job. They made the choice to get in school, and take those loans, to get a degree in order to have a better opportunity at getting a better job. Period. You do not need any of that to get a job and earn a living or support a family. You do need to work hard, and to try. You cannot be lazy and entitled. (with either of those situations)
Growing up this way made me spend money in much different ways than most. For instance. I buy all
my cars with money I save up before hand. I do not leave any balance on credit cards.
These things alone save me a ton of money. Trying to say that its impossible to get by in life without the things you listed, is beyond ridiculous. There are many out there like myself. It's called don't expect the government to take care of you. Take care of yourself, and your family. Meanwhile, theres people here expecting free birth control and or other handouts for optional activities in life. The entitlement attitude of some here is... scary, and sad.