And this is a good example of how you appear to not be familiar with believers in general, and religions in general. Priests or preachers actually tell their congregations what to believe. They guide and shape the religious views of their followers. If you have never listened to a sermon or attended a church, it's understandable that you wouldn't be familiar with the idea of a priest instructing or teaching the congregation in what to believe and how to apply that belief to their lives.
There's also an old general truth that I've heard about being passed on between pastors that most of the members of a congregation will end up thinking about things like what they intend to have for lunch instead of actually listening to a sermon or making any serious effort to actually directly put recommendations into action.
Further,
the majority of people raised in a particular religion stay in that religion. They aren't choosing what to believe so much as believing what they were taught as children to believe.
Again, even within a religion, there can be significant variation. As for choosing what to believe versus being taught... it's not a distinction without a difference, but your rendering of it seems overly simplistic and leaves out the part where a person can certainly choose to believe the things that they were taught as a child and that those beliefs start any evaluation with the incumbent advantage and frequently also benefit from the selection of values that the parents worked to instill into their children.
He knows a lot of Scandinavian Christians, for whom their religion is a minor part of their thinking about life, and more akin to a "working hypothesis" than the totalist belief system here.
You and I are familiar with Southern Baptists and southern Evangelicals, some of the (if not literally the) most radical, extremist, fundamentalist Christians on the planet. The ideological roots of this local religion is found in turning human neighbors into factory farm animals for profit during the slavery era.
I, on the other hand, am most familiar with the Brethren in Christ and the like, which are distinctly less radical and extremist, even if they are still somewhat fundamentalist. I'm also familiar to some notably lesser extent with a number of other significantly varying branches of Christianity and a few other religions.
No, the evangelicals here have this..."mental boobytrap", where any questioning of the church's theology is presumed to be the work of the devil/demons. They start the brainwashing when you're really young, and it's absolutely brainwashing. We couldn't watch "secular" tv or movies or read secular books, etc. The earth was 6K years old, the rumored "fossil record" was planted by satan, and while the speed of light was "legit", god had created the universe with age. We were not allowed to learn the Pythagorean theorem, because Pythagoras was demonically possessed. We were not allowed to have friends who were not True Christians. We spent an hour a day on religious studies at school learning the correct theology.
The social consequences of deconverting was the easy part, I promise.
Ugh. It's not
as bad for the BIC, but yeah, it's still pretty much brainwashing. I, at least, was raised in a congregation where the pastors usually preferred a somewhat more intellectual and good morals approach, regardless, rather than directly embracing YEC (some of the other congregations embraced it more, though), the Omphalos hypothesis, and general ignorance. Of course, I also went to a public school that only specifically taught about religion in a somewhat secular way, even if students were not especially restricted from gathering to practice their religions. It still took a couple years to largely undo what brainwashing had been done to me, though, and the social consequences for me were quite mild, really, as far as I'm concerned (but then, I'm also mostly a hermit by nature).
ETA:
You cannot multiply wealth by dividing it.
Who's talking about
multiplying it?!
Dividing it is fine!
Ehh... to answer this a bit more seriously than you did, long term, it's a good thing for wealth to multiply, for the sake of all. Partial division is almost always necessary for the healthy and sustainable growth of wealth, though.
I also went to a technically nondenominational church even more often (it's where I went to
school in grades 3-10).
This place.
https://www.capturememphis.com/photos/117959 It used to be called "Central Church" and was an ECS campus.
Again, ugh. I reject the validity of schools like that on a rather fundamental level and am glad for the public schooling that I had.
I'm just point out that the believers he knows are merely "believers", whereas a LOT of the believers we know are in a totalist, apocalyptic cult that somehow is considered completely normal and representative of theists in general, in spite of the fact that it's very much a Christian Taliban hellbent on world domination.
It's also not especially representative even of Protestants, much less Christianity as a whole, for that matter. It's a major subset, but I wouldn't rate it as even a majority.