Guess what:
Context and past statements both contribute to determining which is which. By no stretch of the imagination are the two contexts, once fleshed out, equivalent. The Fat Lady has a long, long history, a dark one, full of hate speech. On the record; irrespective of white nationalist denials and pink hanky waving. The other lady went overboard, atypically, but does not have that history. Both deserve reprimands, the first much more serious than the other, because, gosh, reasons.
- Personal insults address individuals. Par for the course in democracy. Worst possible outcome: a Twitter duel.
- Hate speech targets groups, using generalizations to taint entire classes of people. Worst possible outcome: pogroms and gas chambers.
Insults and hate speech ain't the same thing. You'd think them boys'd'ave figured that out by now, what with all that "exceptionalism" and "light on a hill" crap. Maybe that was all fake news?
Hate speech - "Hate speech is speech that attacks a person or group on the basis of attributes such as race, religion, ethnic origin, national origin, gender, disability, sexual orientation, or gender identity."
"A Person"
Last time I checked the c word is a slur specific to gender