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Here is a NY Times article that addresses the issue currently running here, from another student who did not "ostracize" Cruz, and takes her own view of those who did. For those who refuse to open links, I will mention that the student writing here was assaulted by Cruz years before the shooting, and insulted by him again later when she attempted to help him with his work, and she dismisses the notion that it is reasonable to blame the students who avoided him in high school for his troubles.

...This is not to say that children should reject their more socially awkward or isolated peers — not at all. As a former peer counselor and current teacher’s assistant, I strongly believe in and have seen the benefits of reaching out to those who need kindness most.

But students should not be expected to cure the ills of our genuinely troubled classmates, or even our friends, because we first and foremost go to school to learn. The implication that Mr. Cruz’s mental health problems could have been solved if only he had been loved more by his fellow students is both a gross misunderstanding of how these diseases work and a dangerous suggestion that puts children on the front line....

Of course she's just a kid. What does she know?
 
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This is fine as well if you can show how you know that is what she meant and not what she said

Feel free to read her full statement:
So many signs that the Florida shooter was mentally disturbed, even expelled for bad and erratic behavior. Neighbors and classmates knew he was a big problem. Must always report such instances to authorities again and again. We did, time and time again. Since he was in middle school, it was no surprise to anyone who knew him to hear that he was the shooter. Those talking about how we should have not ostracized him, you didn’t know this kid. OK, we did. We know that they are claiming mental health issues, and I am not a psychologist, but we need to pay attention to the fact that this was not just a mental health issue. He would not have harmed that many students with a knife.

Pretty clear there was no bullying or intent to bully.
 
I would like to congratulate Captain Howdy et. al. for turning the topic away from guns and toward the character of Emma Gonzalez. Well played, gentlemen.



Oh. By the way. She recently turned 18. This Cuban flag wearing, activist, "bully" can now walk into a gun store in almost any state in the union and buy an AR-15 and as many magazines and rounds of ammo as she can afford.

Considering her anger issues, I think it's best we stop her if she tries.
 
Feel free to read her full statement:


Pretty clear there was no bullying or intent to bully.

Yes she says ostracised

And she isn't the only person who has spoken about it

Alvarez, who spoke to reporters at*a vigil for victims of the area’s second mass shooting*in 13 months, said he wishes he had said something earlier. “I could have said something to administrators, that ‘hey this kid gets bullied a lot, please help him, please reach out to him.’ I kind of regret not doing that,” Alvarez said.

https://www.tcpalm.com/story/news/2...have-said-something-administrators/341707002/
 
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Perhaps you are not overly familiar with how internet forums work, but we all have the ability to go back and see the thing you previously posted, so lying about it is pointless.

Here’s the claim in question (I’ve bolded it for you convenience):


Will you be providing evidence of that claim? Or admitting it was a lie and retracting it?
I provided evidence. She says he was ostracized. Others who knew him have said he was bullied. I'm not going to retract it because it's true. Deal with it.
 
I provided evidence. She says he was ostracized. Others who knew him have said he was bullied. I'm not going to retract it because it's true. Deal with it.

Deal with your conspiracy theories and lies? Yeah, we’ve all been doing that for most of this thread.

You claimed Emma Gonzalez admitted that she bullied Cruz. She admitted no such thing. And you’ve provided zero evidence to the contrary.
 
Indeed

You don't think ostracising people is bullying

I think ostracising people is bullying

Mainly because it can be a very nasty thing to do. Which is why it has been used as a punishment since we started living in groups. You could argue it's even still used now in a different way with things like solitary confinement in prisons.
In this particular case, we don't even have to agree if ostracizing is bullying or not. The Miami Herald published a story about how Nikolas was ostracized AND bullied. A kid in Junior ROTC with Nikolas said that he complained about being bullied. Zachary Cruz says he bullied his brother.

It's funny how the same people who say Cruz wasn't bullied despite evidence that he was will accept that he was a "Nazi" without evidence that he was.
 
It doesn't

I have always just said ostracising is a form of bullying

A lot of people disagree. Which is cool

The difference being that actual arguments have been made explaining why ostracization is not synonymous with bullying. You’ve just been simply asserting that it is.

Other students have said he was bullied

And?
 
In this particular case, we don't even have to agree if ostracizing is bullying or not. The Miami Herald published a story about how Nikolas was ostracized AND bullied. A kid in Junior ROTC with Nikolas said that he complained about being bullied. Zachary Cruz says he bullied his brother.

It's funny how the same people who say Cruz wasn't bullied despite evidence that he was will accept that he was a "Nazi" without evidence that he was.

Your claim was that Emma Gonzalez admitted to bullying him. That claim is a blatant lie peddled by right wing conspiracy theorists who get their jollies attacking traumatized high school kids.
 
The difference being that actual arguments have been made explaining why ostracization is not synonymous with bullying. You’ve just been simply asserting that it is.



And?
Not very good arguements and you seem to be very keen to avoid the issue that others have said he was actually bullied any way, which kind of makes the argument a bit moot.
 
It's actually simple logical progression from the extreme SJW liberal point of view. They are the people pushing the narrative that we must be "inclusive" and "tolerant" of everybody no matter how different they are and warning us about "triggering" and "microagressions" against any so-called minority. They are the one's who have elevated teasing and not speaking to the weird kid into bullying and probably a hate crime.

In the multicultural paradise of the future where "diversity is our strength" it will be immoral to not be friends with Nazis, if you take the SJW messages to the logical extreme.

Thank you for the laugh. This seems to be effectively the same thing as arguing that open-mindedness leads to people believing anything, and just as easily dismissable. There are indeed grains of truth here, but there's so much chaff mixed in that it's really not worth dealing with as is. The first big mistake, of course, was trying to treat the "extreme SJW liberal point of view" (a.k.a. one of those groups of supposedly obvious crazies that's easy to pick on, but only barely relevant to the mainstream) as so much more worthy of addressing than the more mainstream positions.

But then, hey, this is also a funny accusation after how popular the "Nazi-punching" of Spencer was in similar parts of the left to what you describe and how unpopular it especially was for many of those on the right.



The evidence I have is she said they ostracised him.

She seems like a brainy chick, so I'm thinking she knows what it means.

If you have evidence she doesn't you could post it.

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In short, the fundamental difference between the ostracism and bullying continues to elude you, given that you refuse to accept that bullying is not about the specific actions so much as it is about the combination of action and intent.

There's been little disagreement that some of them fairly certainly ostracized him. There's been much disagreement that the ostracism that was described, as described, qualifies as bullying, with direct explanations as to why. Consistently circling back to the argument that all ostracism is bullying without even remotely actually addressing the arguments for why it's not bullying is quite unconvincing.

So ostracising a kid because they say happen to need a wheel chair isn't bullying

Understood

:rolleyes:

Bullying is active, aggressive intimidation of the target, either physically or psychologically. The bully seeks out the target in order to do them harm.

Ostracising is passive, exclusion of the target. Those who ostracize others want to stay away from them and have nothing to do with them.

Actually, it would be far more correct to say that ostracism can be bullying. Why the ostracism is happening matters quite a bit there. In Cruz' case, the statements seem to point directly at it not qualifying, but Cruz is hardly the only person who's been ostracized.

Ok. I get that argument

If as you say ostracising is not a form of bullying, do you think it has the same effect as bullying and can do as much damage?

Same effect? As much damage? There are indeed some similarities, quite unsurprisingly, given that it's clearly a case of a person being rejected, which is pretty much always unpleasant to have happen to you, regardless of form, and one could conceivably describe bullying as being a subset of the ways that people reject people. In the cases where it actually qualifies as bullying, though, it's one of the relatively minor forms, so definitely less actual damage, unpleasant as it may be.
 
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The claim was that you couldn't kill seventeen people with a knife. I showed that indeed you can.

That was most certainly not the claim. The claim was that "he" could not have killed seventeen people with a knife. Had he broken into his former high school that day, armed with a knife, he would not have killed seventeen people, no matter how carefully he planned the attack, nor how murderous was his intent. That was the claim. Likewise, no other teenager could have killed seventeen people with a knife that day. If a trained commando had broken in with such murderous intent, it is conceivable that someone with that kind of fitness, training, and determination might be able to get to that death toll, except that anyone with that kind of determination wouldn't be breaking into high schools killing random children.

But, I say again, I'm happy to see you resorting to such absurd distortions. It shows that you've got nothing.
 
Same effect? As much damage? There are indeed some similarities, quite unsurprisingly, given that it's clearly a case of a person being rejected, which is pretty much always unpleasant to have happen to you, regardless of form, and one could conceivably describe bullying as being a subset of the ways that people reject people. In the cases where it actually qualifies as bullying, though, it's one of the relatively minor forms, so definitely less actual damage, unpleasant as it may be.

OK

I disagree with this

I think it is as damaging.

Do you mind giving a definitive breakdown of when the act of ostracising goes from being not bullying to bullying
 
The claim was that you couldn't kill seventeen people with a knife. I showed that indeed you can.
You can kill people with knifes. You could even kill a lot of people with a knife. How often does that happen in the USA? How many mass killings are committed by knife wielding maniacs each year? Now, how many are committed by gun wielding maniacs, just for comparison? Your "whataboutery" is noted, but it is a breath-taking fallacy, almost on a level of swimming pools. Guns kill thousands in the USA each year. Deal with that situation because it exists. If the maniacs then swich to knives deal with that when it happens. At the moment, knives really aren't your problem. Assault weapons are.
 
Considering her anger issues, I think it's best we stop her if she tries.

You've got serious issues, if you think that victim blaming is the way forward here. It is not these kids fault that they are the victims of a mass murderer. It is entirely your choice to support the wrong side in this debate.

Your support for a person who perpetrated the most nauseating and cowardly act possible is noted (but not understood). Your endless attack of the victims is also noted, but better understood: you are really really disturbed by survivors of a mass shooting standing up to your favourite organisation. The hierarchy of priorities here is as follows:

NRA
NRA
NRA
NRA
Guns
Guns
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mass murderer
mass murderer
mass murderer








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Victims
 
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