Ron_Tomkins
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In the end, for practical purposes, it's not so much an issue of whether or not they are women, as much as, they want to be treated as women. These are two separate things. Regardless of whether or not it is scientifically true that trans women are not women, they want to be addressed as one, have the same rights as one, be able to go to the same bathrooms, etc. So one is a scientific question, the other one is a moral/societal question of how to treat people.
It's the same with the question on homosexuality: Is it genetic or a choice? It makes no difference when it comes to the question of: Should we respect homosexuals, and allow them to have the same legal rights as straight people? (Though I know a lot of people will argue that no, we need to have the first question answered in order to decide if they get the obtain the same rights in society. But I disagree. Choosing a Religion is a choice, and yet they get a lot of rights, such as the right to not pay taxes)
The whole thing is tricky, because humans are very tribal. We don't like feeling excluded from the group. We evolved from staying in packs and hunting together. So being told "you're not one of us" feels like a stab in the heart.
But in the end, I would break it down to these two basic points:
* Regardless of whether or not trans women are actually women, they should have the same rights, and be treated with dignity and respect
* Regardless of the above, no one is in the obligation of changing their mind about whether or not trans women are actually women. If you believe they are not women, that is your right, and you also have a right to voice your opinion, provided it's done in a respectful manner. No one is under the obligation of calling trans women by the female pronoun or dating them, without being accused of being a transphobic.
These two principles have a very difficult time coexisting with each other. A lot of times, it's almost impossible for these two things to be true at the same time, without one somehow getting in the way of the other. But I believe it is possible, because I have seen many examples of people who abide by these two principles.
It's the same with the question on homosexuality: Is it genetic or a choice? It makes no difference when it comes to the question of: Should we respect homosexuals, and allow them to have the same legal rights as straight people? (Though I know a lot of people will argue that no, we need to have the first question answered in order to decide if they get the obtain the same rights in society. But I disagree. Choosing a Religion is a choice, and yet they get a lot of rights, such as the right to not pay taxes)
The whole thing is tricky, because humans are very tribal. We don't like feeling excluded from the group. We evolved from staying in packs and hunting together. So being told "you're not one of us" feels like a stab in the heart.
But in the end, I would break it down to these two basic points:
* Regardless of whether or not trans women are actually women, they should have the same rights, and be treated with dignity and respect
* Regardless of the above, no one is in the obligation of changing their mind about whether or not trans women are actually women. If you believe they are not women, that is your right, and you also have a right to voice your opinion, provided it's done in a respectful manner. No one is under the obligation of calling trans women by the female pronoun or dating them, without being accused of being a transphobic.
These two principles have a very difficult time coexisting with each other. A lot of times, it's almost impossible for these two things to be true at the same time, without one somehow getting in the way of the other. But I believe it is possible, because I have seen many examples of people who abide by these two principles.