MaartenVergu
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I don't think the title is a good title. You are implying that the people who vote for Trump were stupid. That's exactly the denigrating attitude from the elites towards ordinary people that cause them vote for Trump and not for Hillary. This 'We know it better then you' attitude is the main reason why people voted differently this time. Even when it's true that you are smarter, such an attitude will cause resistance.
You must think it this way: people sometimes cannot express why they do not want something. They cannot verbalise their underlying sadness, hurt, ... Underlying their negative attitude is something they want to communicate. There is some 'information' behind it, which you need to find out.
I believe in 'system thinking'. Within the system, some parts are giving feedback to the whole system, they want some focus on their problems.
This feedback, you try to filter out, is information that tells you something about the underlying needs of these people in order to be able to accept your politics.
Try to see behind their attitude and see the sadness or the hurt behind the behavior of negativity.
Talk with them. Try to find out what sadness is in their life and use this information to improve your politics.
You must think it this way: people sometimes cannot express why they do not want something. They cannot verbalise their underlying sadness, hurt, ... Underlying their negative attitude is something they want to communicate. There is some 'information' behind it, which you need to find out.
I believe in 'system thinking'. Within the system, some parts are giving feedback to the whole system, they want some focus on their problems.
This feedback, you try to filter out, is information that tells you something about the underlying needs of these people in order to be able to accept your politics.
Try to see behind their attitude and see the sadness or the hurt behind the behavior of negativity.
Talk with them. Try to find out what sadness is in their life and use this information to improve your politics.
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