As Aepervius said, it's not true that the answer depends on how you ask the question; the answer depends on
what the initial circumstances are. As long as the question reflects that correctly, then you'll get the correct answer. For example, taking your question: "Sally rolls two dice (6-sided, assumed fair). She shows one is a six. What is the probability that the other one is a six?" There are some things unstated here that in effect render the question unanswerable unless they are assumed. If
in reality Sally picks one die at random and shows it, and if the number six is written on only one side of the other die, then the probability is 1/6, however you may want to slice and dice your other assumptions. If, however, you know when asking the question that Sally deliberately chose to reveal the die with the higher number, that may in some situations (though not this one, I think) change the answer, and if you happen to know that both dice have 6 written on all six sides then that most definitely changes it. And if you choose to conceal such information when asking the question, then
the XKCD -gry rule applies.
Not really, no. The property is simply that, unless the initial conditions are correctly stated, then the calculated resulting probability will not be correct. That's pretty much the case for any predictive statement.
Dave