I home cook 95% of my meals. Less than $10/day. My problem is prtion control, not quality of food.
Smart & Final has 50# bags of HUGE excellent baking potatoes, $10. How many potato pancakes can I make? One spud, shredded, fried in home rendered beef shortening, slathered in sour cream. Dinner cost, $1? Vs $8 for a fast food meal?
I totally identify with that. Your "potato pancakes" aren't in my repertoire but they sound delicious.
You know what the most important purchase was for me at the beginning of my weight loss plan? This.
http://www.ikea.com/gb/en/products/.../ordning-scales-stainless-steel-art-90100057/
I looked up the calorie content of the things I wanted to eat and made a note of it. I have a page on my computer headed "common things to eat" and just added to it every time I checked something else out. I weighed everything religiously, even weighing a slice of bread before and after putting spread on it, then again with marmalade, to get an estimate of how much was in my usual serving. (I only did that once, I'm not a complete obsessive.) I put my salad plate on the scales before adding the salad dressing so I could compute that accurately too.
I kept a running total of everything I ate during the day, with a plan of what I was going to eat for the rest of the day, and aimed for 1300 calories. If I came in under 1200 calories I could have a small glass of wine in the evening. Of course once I got into the swing of it I was repeating meals so I didn't have to work everything out from scratch every time.
This has recalibrated my perceptions of portion size. I posted a couple of pictures above of evening meals prepared like this, 350 and 435 calories respectively, and these now seem like a good feed to me.
Yes, this does take time and I can see why people in a hurry don't fiddle with these little details. But if you have the time to do it and you're determined to lose weight, it works. Obviously the actual calorie limit for the day will be higher for a larger person (I'm 5 ft 7 in) but the principle works for anyone with the time and the determination to do it. (I was also doing two or three days a week with very few calories at all - about 250 - which speeded up the process a lot. But I'd still have lost weight healthily if I'd just stuck to 1300 calories a day.)
It is a mindset thing though. I psyched myself into wanting to be able to wear the nice clothes I had in my wardrobe that I hadn't worn in maybe 10 to 15 years, more than I actually wanted to eat something. I also took periodic breaks from the diet, usually coinciding with actual holidays, and these were something to look forward to on a longer term basis. It was about delayed gratification. Don't stress about not eating today, you get 1300 calories tomorrow. Don't stress about holding down to 1300 calories for now, you have a week away when you can do what you like. And principally, think about how good you'll feel when you can get into that Laura Ashley dress you like.
For me it was totally worth it. I lost 4 stones. Almost 60 lb. I'm actually coming to the end of it now and I will have lost 60 lb when I get there. I'm swanning round in clothes I once thought I could never wear again, and people are paying me compliments that are making me quite conceited. But I really wanted to do it. I don't know how you encourage people to
want to do it.
Except, although for me it was largely about vanity - I have a naturally good figure and smothering it in adipose tissue was self-destructive - it turned out not just to be about that. The list of niggling health problems that have simply gone away is absolutely astounding. Not just things I thought might be weight-related, like a tendency to swollen ankles in the evening, but things it never occurred to me for a moment had anything to do with my weight. My persistent cough has gone, the occasional stress incontinence has gone, my acid reflux has gone, a really troublesome problem where food I was swallowing would get stuck in my gullet half way down has gone. I'm moving around far more easily. I can duck under a barrier and out the other side without touching anything or going down on one knee in the mud. I'm riding my bike to the shops in a far higher gear than before, and going that much faster. I feel light on my feet, and quite frankly 20 years younger.
And the biggest contributor to all this has been that wee set of kitchen scales from Ikea.