As may be expected, while there is broad acceptance of the idea that there is only one set of "10 Commandments", the reality is that the Commandments are listed three times in the bible and are slightly different each time. And the style in which they are written down can cause confusion and obviously, differences in interpretation.
1) I am the Lord thy god, who brought thee out of the land of Egypt, out of the house of bondage.
This one isn't a command or a rule, this is a statement. It cannot be interpreted as a command, but if you combine it with what you and others interpret as the second commandment, it makes sense as a prologue. It only makes sense in such a case, as not all peoples were in bondage when the word was brought to them.
2) Thou shalt have no other gods before Me.
This can either be interpreted to mean that Yahweh is the only deity, or that there are other deities, and Yahweh must be given primacy. Archeological evidence would seem to indicate that the monotheistic approach only started to gain primacy after the Babylonian captivity. This also gives a bit of a problem to those that believe that Jesus is divine. If Jesus is divine, then how can you possibly honour Yahweh as the only deity? This is what leads to the rather awkward Trinitarian Doctrine (God the Father, God the Son and God the Holy Spirit - three aspects of the same being).
3) Thou shalt not take the name of the Lord thy God in vain.
Are you seeing this as not committing perjury, or not cursing in general? There are arguments on both sides.
4) Remember the Sabbath day to keep it holy.
Which one - ie. what day is the Sabbath? Do you take it as being from sundown on Friday to sundown on Saturday, or do you use a different time? The Bible doesn't explicitly state how to mark the days, nor does it give a definite start date - our current week is the result of social conventions, not divine statements and arguments can be made for any of them with equal validity.
5) Honour thy father and thy mother.
Generally a good idea, especially when under Jewish law a disobedient child can be put to death. I however prefer to not view my children as property that can be disposed of when it becomes problematic for me. I also have general problems with the idea of this being a commandment as there are many times when honouring either parent just should not happen, as when a parent is abusive for instance.
6) Thou shalt not murder.
Kill, or murder? I lean towards Murder myself, as the preponderance of killing done at Yahweh's commands in the OT leads one to believe that Yahweh's OK with some judicially sanctioned killing or the deaths of people not his favourites at that particular instant.
7) Thou shalt not commit adultery.
I don't disagree with this, as I believe that you do owe your spouse the respect of being the focus of your releationship. Where I disagree with your interpretation is the idea the sex=marriage. I see where you get the idea, but believe that you are ignoring other verses that indicate anything other than your preferred interpretation.
One of those cross cultural constants.
9) Thou shalt not bear false witness against they neighbour.
Another cross cultural constant. On the other hand, it is hard to reconcile not bearing false witness against thy neighbour, with the propaganda found in the Bible against neighbouring peoples, and the misinformation that you have attempted to spread concerning black people Mr. Bethke.
10) Thou shalt not covet anything that belongs to thy neighbour.
A far better version than the one found in the Bible, which equates a wife with a man's property. Also hard to reconcile with the conquest of Canaan and the wars of Saul and David, as what is an aggressive war of conquest if not coveting the lands of your neighbour?